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<blockquote data-quote="ThreeShadows" data-source="post: 221181" data-attributes="member: 6370"><p>One twin wants to meet his birth mom, the other says he never wants to see her (they are identicals!). The one who wants to meet her is unwilling to do the work involved. I found a website for him and printed out a form. He STILL has not filled it out. When they were around 15 y.o. they both talked about a search. I told them that when they turned 18 I would help if they wanted me to (very scary). They are now adults and have made no effort.</p><p> </p><p>easy child daughter 12 talks about a search for her Russian biomom. I told her she can wait 'til she is 18. I think this is a lot harder for girls to deal with because they are the ones who give new life.</p><p> </p><p>MWM, is this bringing up the abandonment and rejection you feel from the son who has turned away from your family? I am so sorry for your pain and fear.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ThreeShadows, post: 221181, member: 6370"] One twin wants to meet his birth mom, the other says he never wants to see her (they are identicals!). The one who wants to meet her is unwilling to do the work involved. I found a website for him and printed out a form. He STILL has not filled it out. When they were around 15 y.o. they both talked about a search. I told them that when they turned 18 I would help if they wanted me to (very scary). They are now adults and have made no effort. easy child daughter 12 talks about a search for her Russian biomom. I told her she can wait 'til she is 18. I think this is a lot harder for girls to deal with because they are the ones who give new life. MWM, is this bringing up the abandonment and rejection you feel from the son who has turned away from your family? I am so sorry for your pain and fear. [/QUOTE]
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