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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 221438" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>Ok, this scenario is much different than what I visualized when I first read this thread. So, instead of me relating to it like I could be the bio-mom who had her child adopted but really wanted to always be a small part of his life, know he's taken care of, and let him know that I still love him, now I'm looking at it more like this would be like difficult child wanting to search for his father and contact him now. From that standpoint, since I KNOW difficult child would end up hurt, disappointed, and left even more confused and angry and negative....then, NO WAY. I have already told difficult child that when he is an adult, I will give him the info I have so if he wanted to look for his father, he would be able to, but I also have started to prepare him a little (without saying anything real bad about his father) that he end up very hurt.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 221438, member: 3699"] Ok, this scenario is much different than what I visualized when I first read this thread. So, instead of me relating to it like I could be the bio-mom who had her child adopted but really wanted to always be a small part of his life, know he's taken care of, and let him know that I still love him, now I'm looking at it more like this would be like difficult child wanting to search for his father and contact him now. From that standpoint, since I KNOW difficult child would end up hurt, disappointed, and left even more confused and angry and negative....then, NO WAY. I have already told difficult child that when he is an adult, I will give him the info I have so if he wanted to look for his father, he would be able to, but I also have started to prepare him a little (without saying anything real bad about his father) that he end up very hurt. [/QUOTE]
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