TJ2 you are not the first to suggest acting. I think she'd love theater classes but I hesitate because she is already such a gifted liar. I'll look into it. I guess it couldn't hurt to try it out.
I know where you are going. It's never constructive but we try anyway.
We are done with dance/cheer. It's a waste of time. I coached cheer. Poppy did well with me but not with other instructors. I enrolled her in a gym to work on back handsprings and she "forgot" how to do cartwheels. I gave her two months to get her act together before I pulled her because cheer gyms are major money in Texas. I pulled her out of ballet before they could ask us to leave. The teacher was obviously done dealing with her laying on the floor and complaining about injuries and hunger. Swimming was 'bladder infections'. Even VBS was a disaster....
This is how her Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) presents. She's not violent. She never tantrums. She's just a sympathy succubus and manipulator. I'm afraid one day she will be one of those fake cancer scammers you read about.