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<blockquote data-quote="Mattsmom277" data-source="post: 281106" data-attributes="member: 4264"><p>My difficult child still from time to time blames me for the year he spent in a anger management type day treatment program. Says all I did putting him there was make him MORE angry and out of control. He claims had I not 'done this to him' that he wouldn't have so many ongoing school problems and home problems in following years. He blames me for the 3 months theraputic foster care placement. Says that was a direct effect of having put him in the earlier stated day treatment program. He also blames me for making him "feel like a complete loser with no hope for a life" by having him attend counselling, having resource in school, having an IEP which made him "feel like a freak" etc.</p><p>My difficult child is only 16 and has made such amazing changes past couple years. Only in extreme anger does he mention this anymore. I think its out of habit more than belief on his part. He more often than not tells me that if I'd let him continue on, no way he'd be working hard to get the right courses and proper grades to get admitted to University when he graduates high school. </p><p>I hope your difficult child lets this all pass soon and can learn some responsability for the part they played in their own life path. (((hugs))) You're a good mom!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Mattsmom277, post: 281106, member: 4264"] My difficult child still from time to time blames me for the year he spent in a anger management type day treatment program. Says all I did putting him there was make him MORE angry and out of control. He claims had I not 'done this to him' that he wouldn't have so many ongoing school problems and home problems in following years. He blames me for the 3 months theraputic foster care placement. Says that was a direct effect of having put him in the earlier stated day treatment program. He also blames me for making him "feel like a complete loser with no hope for a life" by having him attend counselling, having resource in school, having an IEP which made him "feel like a freak" etc. My difficult child is only 16 and has made such amazing changes past couple years. Only in extreme anger does he mention this anymore. I think its out of habit more than belief on his part. He more often than not tells me that if I'd let him continue on, no way he'd be working hard to get the right courses and proper grades to get admitted to University when he graduates high school. I hope your difficult child lets this all pass soon and can learn some responsability for the part they played in their own life path. (((hugs))) You're a good mom! [/QUOTE]
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