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<blockquote data-quote="compassion" data-source="post: 226886" data-attributes="member: 6393"><p>thank you reminds me alot of my difficult child daughter. So much the attitude of I will do waht I want and if you don't do it MY way, I will find someone to enable me so I can get my way. </p><p> I had to laugh about the difficult child house. My difficult child soes this. She finds difficult child families . </p><p> She is also an expert an spinning stuff to get what she wants. Her illness/addctions lash out at the stucture/health and stability I provide.I am detaching more and take it less personally. I am often the baddie as i am the limit setter. Sometimes she refuses to talk to me. You set limits with thank you and he insisted on his way. I choose my battles and the current one is no rnning, using, and contact with substance abusers. The difficult child family she hangs with in many ways is that way without the substances. I work on detachment and keekpig the focus on us and suporting health.</p><p> </p><p> I really try to not engae in the difficult child families although it is fruatrating. She also did this on Christmas. We had a fantatic holiday here but she did go over to this other family and they saw the latest movie about Hitler. I am settign boundaries more about this though. She did not immedialty get picked up, they sleep till 2 and she gets very bored. I set the boudnaries so husband and I could have some tiem together.</p><p> </p><p> I also really try to keep the focus on me . The difficult child family also think I am a meanie becasue I am settinglimits,faciliate discipline,etc. </p><p> </p><p> The less I react to it, the more she gets bored with it, the more she is stabilzed she seems to want healthier stuff. Some days are pertty good and some days are more challenging. Compassion</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="compassion, post: 226886, member: 6393"] thank you reminds me alot of my difficult child daughter. So much the attitude of I will do waht I want and if you don't do it MY way, I will find someone to enable me so I can get my way. I had to laugh about the difficult child house. My difficult child soes this. She finds difficult child families . She is also an expert an spinning stuff to get what she wants. Her illness/addctions lash out at the stucture/health and stability I provide.I am detaching more and take it less personally. I am often the baddie as i am the limit setter. Sometimes she refuses to talk to me. You set limits with thank you and he insisted on his way. I choose my battles and the current one is no rnning, using, and contact with substance abusers. The difficult child family she hangs with in many ways is that way without the substances. I work on detachment and keekpig the focus on us and suporting health. I really try to not engae in the difficult child families although it is fruatrating. She also did this on Christmas. We had a fantatic holiday here but she did go over to this other family and they saw the latest movie about Hitler. I am settign boundaries more about this though. She did not immedialty get picked up, they sleep till 2 and she gets very bored. I set the boudnaries so husband and I could have some tiem together. I also really try to keep the focus on me . The difficult child family also think I am a meanie becasue I am settinglimits,faciliate discipline,etc. The less I react to it, the more she gets bored with it, the more she is stabilzed she seems to want healthier stuff. Some days are pertty good and some days are more challenging. Compassion [/QUOTE]
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