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<blockquote data-quote="goldenguru" data-source="post: 102880" data-attributes="member: 1545"><p>(((hugs))) Kitty~</p><p></p><p>Just a couple of thoughts. I might suggest you talk to your doctor about getting on some AD medications. You sound as if you're depressed or on the brink of depression. Therapy would be helpful too.</p><p></p><p>It also sounds to me like you are mourning. You have had some significant losses - a divorce is a great loss - and a troubled child is also a great loss. Both are going to require some 'mourning'.</p><p></p><p>Rest assured that we have all wrestled with the things you mention. It's ok to reflect on the 'what if's' for a period of time - but - it is very important then to move forward with your own life.</p><p></p><p>We all do the best we can - or could do at the time- with our kids. When they are adults their choices belong to them and them alone. </p><p></p><p>I'm sorry you're hurting. Christmas is a really difficult time of year for so many people. Keep that in mind.</p><p></p><p>Come and pour your heart 'into the abyss' as often as you need to. We can't fix it - wish we could - but we are listening and at some level understand where you're coming from.</p><p></p><p>More hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="goldenguru, post: 102880, member: 1545"] (((hugs))) Kitty~ Just a couple of thoughts. I might suggest you talk to your doctor about getting on some AD medications. You sound as if you're depressed or on the brink of depression. Therapy would be helpful too. It also sounds to me like you are mourning. You have had some significant losses - a divorce is a great loss - and a troubled child is also a great loss. Both are going to require some 'mourning'. Rest assured that we have all wrestled with the things you mention. It's ok to reflect on the 'what if's' for a period of time - but - it is very important then to move forward with your own life. We all do the best we can - or could do at the time- with our kids. When they are adults their choices belong to them and them alone. I'm sorry you're hurting. Christmas is a really difficult time of year for so many people. Keep that in mind. Come and pour your heart 'into the abyss' as often as you need to. We can't fix it - wish we could - but we are listening and at some level understand where you're coming from. More hugs. [/QUOTE]
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