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<blockquote data-quote="Terryforvols" data-source="post: 102946" data-attributes="member: 2127"><p>I agree with all the above. I, too, was very controlling in trying to save my difficult child. I have learned since that trying to "control" is normal in a very abnormal situation, you were trying to SAVE your child, which, much to my chagrin was impossible because only they can save themselves!! Try detaching as much as possible and grieve. It's terribly hard at any time of the year, but the holidays increase that!</p><p></p><p>You are in my thoughts and prayers. Remember -- IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT OR YOUR DECISION!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Terryforvols, post: 102946, member: 2127"] I agree with all the above. I, too, was very controlling in trying to save my difficult child. I have learned since that trying to "control" is normal in a very abnormal situation, you were trying to SAVE your child, which, much to my chagrin was impossible because only they can save themselves!! Try detaching as much as possible and grieve. It's terribly hard at any time of the year, but the holidays increase that! You are in my thoughts and prayers. Remember -- IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT OR YOUR DECISION!! [/QUOTE]
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