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<blockquote data-quote="Marcie Mac" data-source="post: 468433" data-attributes="member: 47"><p>I would hold the "I am moving out if "she" moves in card close to your chest only to be pulled out in a last ditch move. And why should "YOU' have to move out of "YOUR" house. </p><p></p><p>I would give him a chance to deal with the angst this is causing him with the therapist first, but the longer this goes on, the worse its going to get. You are going to be the "bad" guy no matter what - sorry bout that - I was still the bad guy even though I told my mother she could come here, and when I announced to my family that my mother was comming to live, everyone had thought I really had lost it as we have never gotten along, but I was determined to do the right thing. Fate had decided that wasn't going to happen thankfully and she stayed with my cousin and I realize now my life would be a living he## if I was able to proceed with that thought. After she died 2 months later Syds mom moved in. </p><p></p><p>She is such a lovely person Jo, never intruding or demanding, the mom I should have had, but I gotta tell you it is difficult when you are used to just doing your thing, and now have to consider someone else before you do. My mother did enjoy Assisted Living, after balking at first. There were lots of things to do and people of a similar age to do them with - she only started to hate it when her mind started to tank. It sucks when you finally get thru raising kids, think ahhhhh, time now for me, then you have to deal with the parent issues</p><p></p><p>Have you checked out Caring.com - Its really a good website for dealing with issues on elderly parents</p><p></p><p>Fingers crossed for you</p><p></p><p>Marcie</p><p></p><p>I am hoping your hubby has the strength to deal with this issue - if not this is not going to go down well. Did the deed issue ever get resolved?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marcie Mac, post: 468433, member: 47"] I would hold the "I am moving out if "she" moves in card close to your chest only to be pulled out in a last ditch move. And why should "YOU' have to move out of "YOUR" house. I would give him a chance to deal with the angst this is causing him with the therapist first, but the longer this goes on, the worse its going to get. You are going to be the "bad" guy no matter what - sorry bout that - I was still the bad guy even though I told my mother she could come here, and when I announced to my family that my mother was comming to live, everyone had thought I really had lost it as we have never gotten along, but I was determined to do the right thing. Fate had decided that wasn't going to happen thankfully and she stayed with my cousin and I realize now my life would be a living he## if I was able to proceed with that thought. After she died 2 months later Syds mom moved in. She is such a lovely person Jo, never intruding or demanding, the mom I should have had, but I gotta tell you it is difficult when you are used to just doing your thing, and now have to consider someone else before you do. My mother did enjoy Assisted Living, after balking at first. There were lots of things to do and people of a similar age to do them with - she only started to hate it when her mind started to tank. It sucks when you finally get thru raising kids, think ahhhhh, time now for me, then you have to deal with the parent issues Have you checked out Caring.com - Its really a good website for dealing with issues on elderly parents Fingers crossed for you Marcie I am hoping your hubby has the strength to deal with this issue - if not this is not going to go down well. Did the deed issue ever get resolved? [/QUOTE]
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