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<blockquote data-quote="witzend" data-source="post: 468443" data-attributes="member: 99"><p>If you are resolute, you MUST tell him that you will move if his mom moves in. Just as we can't make ultimatums to our kids we can't keep, we can't make ultimatums to our spouses we can't keep. They're <em>huge</em> decisions to make, and it's only fair that we include them when we've come to a conclusion. He needs to have this information ASAP. I'd also want to discuss with him and the therapist whether you are comfortable with him sharing that tidbit with his mom, and if so how much of that decision he wants her to think played into the decision. Is it ok with you if he tells her "H&R is leaving if you move in" - period? There could be unintended extended family-consequences to that.</p><p></p><p>FWIW, where on earth did she come up with this idea? Was it out of the blue? A friend did it and it worked out?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="witzend, post: 468443, member: 99"] If you are resolute, you MUST tell him that you will move if his mom moves in. Just as we can't make ultimatums to our kids we can't keep, we can't make ultimatums to our spouses we can't keep. They're [I]huge[/I] decisions to make, and it's only fair that we include them when we've come to a conclusion. He needs to have this information ASAP. I'd also want to discuss with him and the therapist whether you are comfortable with him sharing that tidbit with his mom, and if so how much of that decision he wants her to think played into the decision. Is it ok with you if he tells her "H&R is leaving if you move in" - period? There could be unintended extended family-consequences to that. FWIW, where on earth did she come up with this idea? Was it out of the blue? A friend did it and it worked out? [/QUOTE]
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