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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 468502" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p>Thanks Trinity - very good food for thought. </p><p></p><p><span style="color: #008080"><span style="font-size: 10px">Up until July 11th, our home/house was in father in law's name. Now that he's passed, it is in probate and will be put into mother in law's name. Once that takes effect, the PLAN was to have her quit claim it to H and me. Then it would be ours. I would move because technically I have no stake or claim in the house or property. If after I left it went into H's name, then I would sue for half the value (and I would definitely do that as it's been my home for over 15 years!). I am prepared emotionally to walk away from H should the need arise. It would be difficult, but I could do it. Financially, not so much. I have a friend who said I could rent a room from her until I can afford my own place, which would likely be about 3-4 months. The other option would be to rent a place with either easy child or difficult child and her boyfriend. We have discussed this already. If H chose his mom over me, it would be the last nail in the proverbial coffin, really, as his reluctance over the years to include me in certain discussions with his dad pertaining to the house affairs has already undermined our relationship...so no surprise this here situation we're in. </span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 468502, member: 2211"] Thanks Trinity - very good food for thought. [COLOR=#008080][SIZE=2]Up until July 11th, our home/house was in father in law's name. Now that he's passed, it is in probate and will be put into mother in law's name. Once that takes effect, the PLAN was to have her quit claim it to H and me. Then it would be ours. I would move because technically I have no stake or claim in the house or property. If after I left it went into H's name, then I would sue for half the value (and I would definitely do that as it's been my home for over 15 years!). I am prepared emotionally to walk away from H should the need arise. It would be difficult, but I could do it. Financially, not so much. I have a friend who said I could rent a room from her until I can afford my own place, which would likely be about 3-4 months. The other option would be to rent a place with either easy child or difficult child and her boyfriend. We have discussed this already. If H chose his mom over me, it would be the last nail in the proverbial coffin, really, as his reluctance over the years to include me in certain discussions with his dad pertaining to the house affairs has already undermined our relationship...so no surprise this here situation we're in. [/SIZE][/COLOR] [/QUOTE]
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