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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 468507" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p><span style="color: #008080"><span style="font-size: 10px">Thank you DDD - also very good food for thought. I know my wording will have to be delicate and well thought out. What you said is what I had planned if I said anything at all. I'm not usually an ultimatum type of gal (I hate the idea of ever going back on my word), but I think he may need the push. </span></span></p><p><span style="color: #008080"><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></span></p><p><span style="color: #008080"><span style="font-size: 10px">I wish we could have scheduled a two hour session but we have to always take the last appointment of the day because H can't get there. As it is, I'm nervous he won't show up! </span></span></p><p><span style="color: #008080"><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></span></p><p><span style="color: #008080"><span style="font-size: 10px">I think...I KNOW...he is struggling. And I totally understand that feeling of having to tell your parent "no" - it is very difficult. But this is serious and sooner rather than later this needs to be said to his mom. </span></span></p><p><span style="color: #008080"><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></span></p><p><span style="color: #008080"><span style="font-size: 10px">As an aside, I was thinking about it today. sister in law told me that when she spoke with mother in law, mother in law said that we 'all' had a conversation and that we were all on board. Well, I can assure you, I have never had a conversation with mother in law about moving into my home. Ever. If it was a real conversation, A) I would remember and B) I would have nipped it in the bud right then and there. I know when she mentioned it to H, it took him off guard and he doesn't think fast on his feet so his silence was likely taken as a yes. The other thing that really peeves me is that if she initiated that conversation with H...where was I? Just another way this woman is constantly undermining my position as H's wife. She has never acknowledged me as his legally wedded wife and continues in that vein. So, yeah, I am angry too. </span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 468507, member: 2211"] [COLOR=#008080][SIZE=2]Thank you DDD - also very good food for thought. I know my wording will have to be delicate and well thought out. What you said is what I had planned if I said anything at all. I'm not usually an ultimatum type of gal (I hate the idea of ever going back on my word), but I think he may need the push. I wish we could have scheduled a two hour session but we have to always take the last appointment of the day because H can't get there. As it is, I'm nervous he won't show up! I think...I KNOW...he is struggling. And I totally understand that feeling of having to tell your parent "no" - it is very difficult. But this is serious and sooner rather than later this needs to be said to his mom. As an aside, I was thinking about it today. sister in law told me that when she spoke with mother in law, mother in law said that we 'all' had a conversation and that we were all on board. Well, I can assure you, I have never had a conversation with mother in law about moving into my home. Ever. If it was a real conversation, A) I would remember and B) I would have nipped it in the bud right then and there. I know when she mentioned it to H, it took him off guard and he doesn't think fast on his feet so his silence was likely taken as a yes. The other thing that really peeves me is that if she initiated that conversation with H...where was I? Just another way this woman is constantly undermining my position as H's wife. She has never acknowledged me as his legally wedded wife and continues in that vein. So, yeah, I am angry too. [/SIZE][/COLOR] [/QUOTE]
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