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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 223284" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>you guys have been so great, thank you so very much. my time on the internet has been soo limited past two days i feel lost coming in i'm missing so much. lol. i've been doing alot of running around, difficult child's pyschdoc today now hw, last night 5 kids, tonight wrapping with boyfriend once we do dinner and settle difficult child down. ewh holiday time!! <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> </p><p> </p><p>anyway Jane Im' glad to hear that the program worked for your difficult child! That is great! It's just a matter of finding the "right" thing that will work for easy child at this point. I"m truly not sure if that type of a place is the right thing for her, (ok on the phone getting difficult child's spelling words at the same time lol).... </p><p> </p><p>I"m hoping I do the right thing, i dont' think it's a simple teenage thing, only due to the fact that it has gotten progressively worse with-her. thanks for all your support. i'm sorry i haven't been able to read anyone's threads past day or so......... ugh. </p><p> </p><p>Eek- sorry for short lol. - She gave him oral sex, there i said it. yuck. besides other. point being this is the "new" thing kids are doing these days. they seem to thonk it's a safe option to not having sex. It is not. Same diseases can be caught and i have looked up on line that her self esteem can be totally damaged from doing this at such a young age. 20/20 did a special on this exact topic about a year ago, it's the new thing that all the kids are currently doing. </p><p> </p><p>As far as the progression i think i pretty much covered it, started years back and gotten worse ever since. tons of "team school meetings" easy child isnt' focused, easy child doens't care, all she cares about are her freinds, this that and the other thing. She was offered a different school situation a program that would offer more a trade and than she would finish off her high school as well. She chose not to do that. fine.</p><p> </p><p>betrayed, yes without a doubt. she has lied for years, she's good at it. she lies so she can get what she wants. this is who she is. she'll manipulate anyone she can to get what she needs and wants. i just didn't think she was taking me for a ride i was hopeful that things had changed and i was so so proud of her. I was also making a point to tell her that everyday the past mos.!! LOL. little did i know.</p><p> </p><p>anyhow, i'm waiting on call backs from various schools right now. I am not jumping the gun. I"m not that type of person. I just have to figure out meanwhile while i am making these decisions what things to put in place and how for her since she needs it. also how to handle this boy. we have done nothing yet. which isn't good.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 223284, member: 4514"] you guys have been so great, thank you so very much. my time on the internet has been soo limited past two days i feel lost coming in i'm missing so much. lol. i've been doing alot of running around, difficult child's pyschdoc today now hw, last night 5 kids, tonight wrapping with boyfriend once we do dinner and settle difficult child down. ewh holiday time!! :) anyway Jane Im' glad to hear that the program worked for your difficult child! That is great! It's just a matter of finding the "right" thing that will work for easy child at this point. I"m truly not sure if that type of a place is the right thing for her, (ok on the phone getting difficult child's spelling words at the same time lol).... I"m hoping I do the right thing, i dont' think it's a simple teenage thing, only due to the fact that it has gotten progressively worse with-her. thanks for all your support. i'm sorry i haven't been able to read anyone's threads past day or so......... ugh. Eek- sorry for short lol. - She gave him oral sex, there i said it. yuck. besides other. point being this is the "new" thing kids are doing these days. they seem to thonk it's a safe option to not having sex. It is not. Same diseases can be caught and i have looked up on line that her self esteem can be totally damaged from doing this at such a young age. 20/20 did a special on this exact topic about a year ago, it's the new thing that all the kids are currently doing. As far as the progression i think i pretty much covered it, started years back and gotten worse ever since. tons of "team school meetings" easy child isnt' focused, easy child doens't care, all she cares about are her freinds, this that and the other thing. She was offered a different school situation a program that would offer more a trade and than she would finish off her high school as well. She chose not to do that. fine. betrayed, yes without a doubt. she has lied for years, she's good at it. she lies so she can get what she wants. this is who she is. she'll manipulate anyone she can to get what she needs and wants. i just didn't think she was taking me for a ride i was hopeful that things had changed and i was so so proud of her. I was also making a point to tell her that everyday the past mos.!! LOL. little did i know. anyhow, i'm waiting on call backs from various schools right now. I am not jumping the gun. I"m not that type of person. I just have to figure out meanwhile while i am making these decisions what things to put in place and how for her since she needs it. also how to handle this boy. we have done nothing yet. which isn't good. [/QUOTE]
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