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<blockquote data-quote="eekysign" data-source="post: 223286" data-attributes="member: 6479"><p>I will say this, and only this: It's not new (or at least it was happening over a decade ago with my generation!), it depends on how you were raised as to whether you consider it demeaning (I don't think it is), and it certainly is not going to damage her self-esteem (didn't hurt me one bit), without other factors intervening (like being forced to do it, etc).</p><p></p><p><img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> I'm not gonna step on any morality toes (hehehe...morality toes!), but remember that different families have different ways of looking at sexual activity. What to you may seem demeaning, may seem to others as a very common sex act. It seems that this is not something you are OK with....but I doubt you'll convince her of that....and it may harm her at this point, to do so. Sigh. I am SO happy my sis hasn't gotten to this stage yet. So much to worry about!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="eekysign, post: 223286, member: 6479"] I will say this, and only this: It's not new (or at least it was happening over a decade ago with my generation!), it depends on how you were raised as to whether you consider it demeaning (I don't think it is), and it certainly is not going to damage her self-esteem (didn't hurt me one bit), without other factors intervening (like being forced to do it, etc). :) I'm not gonna step on any morality toes (hehehe...morality toes!), but remember that different families have different ways of looking at sexual activity. What to you may seem demeaning, may seem to others as a very common sex act. It seems that this is not something you are OK with....but I doubt you'll convince her of that....and it may harm her at this point, to do so. Sigh. I am SO happy my sis hasn't gotten to this stage yet. So much to worry about! [/QUOTE]
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