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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 223288" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>well to be quite honest, it can lower their self esteem. it's documented on various different websites that it can do such. They are basically proviing a service for nothing in exchange if they meaning a girl performs it.</p><p> </p><p>As far as different families are concerned. We do not speak openly on sex topics and discuss what one should or shouldn't do. I educate her to the risks involved, including disease first and pregnancy, the emotional attachment that can come from such that their minds at this age or younger are just not ready to handle. So, basically at this stage of the game she shouldn't be doing that, or anything else in my eyes. I"d rather they'd made love for the first time only. Yet she decided to "take care" of him. This sickens me.</p><p> </p><p>I have tried my best to educate her i truly have. to show her right from wrong. I myself have never even had a revolving door so to speak as a single mom. there were never men in and out. I could see hey if mom's doing it, than let me. Yet i made sure to keep my personal life, just that "personal". So her thought process and lack of yes self esteem i think on some level has brought her to this point. it is sad she is so not ready for the world she is now entering. Or the bad choices she has made, and continues to make. I can only hope that whatever it is we decide to do makes some sort of an impact.</p><p> </p><p>ok my thoughts are bouncing and i have to check up on everyone else. i have no clue how everyone else is lol.</p><p> </p><p>i so so appreciate your thoughts though. it is always helfpul to gain perspective from someone else's viewpoint.</p><p> </p><p>sorry if i've rambled, i'm juggling on my end. lol</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 223288, member: 4514"] well to be quite honest, it can lower their self esteem. it's documented on various different websites that it can do such. They are basically proviing a service for nothing in exchange if they meaning a girl performs it. As far as different families are concerned. We do not speak openly on sex topics and discuss what one should or shouldn't do. I educate her to the risks involved, including disease first and pregnancy, the emotional attachment that can come from such that their minds at this age or younger are just not ready to handle. So, basically at this stage of the game she shouldn't be doing that, or anything else in my eyes. I"d rather they'd made love for the first time only. Yet she decided to "take care" of him. This sickens me. I have tried my best to educate her i truly have. to show her right from wrong. I myself have never even had a revolving door so to speak as a single mom. there were never men in and out. I could see hey if mom's doing it, than let me. Yet i made sure to keep my personal life, just that "personal". So her thought process and lack of yes self esteem i think on some level has brought her to this point. it is sad she is so not ready for the world she is now entering. Or the bad choices she has made, and continues to make. I can only hope that whatever it is we decide to do makes some sort of an impact. ok my thoughts are bouncing and i have to check up on everyone else. i have no clue how everyone else is lol. i so so appreciate your thoughts though. it is always helfpul to gain perspective from someone else's viewpoint. sorry if i've rambled, i'm juggling on my end. lol [/QUOTE]
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