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Boyfriend wants to get to know my kids better. Yikes!
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<blockquote data-quote="Californiablonde" data-source="post: 554445" data-attributes="member: 2196"><p>Jody, what happened to you is EXACTLY what I'm afraid of. I'm afraid he will try and tell me how to parent my kids and I will resent him for it. I'm also afraid the kids flat out won't like him. They already have a stepmother from hell and it would really be damaging to them to have a really bad stepdad. I don't know if my boyfriend would try to step in and take control or not. I honestly have no idea how he would be around my kids. It will be interesting to see how this all pans out. One thing I did tell him is that I will not live with him. If he wants to move in with me he better plan on marrying me first. I played house with my kids' dad for nine years and I refuse to do it again. I better have that ring on my finger before he even thinks of asking to live with me. I'm sure I scared him with that ultimatum, lol. I am in no way ready to live with someone, and he is in no way ready to get married, so we are good there.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Californiablonde, post: 554445, member: 2196"] Jody, what happened to you is EXACTLY what I'm afraid of. I'm afraid he will try and tell me how to parent my kids and I will resent him for it. I'm also afraid the kids flat out won't like him. They already have a stepmother from hell and it would really be damaging to them to have a really bad stepdad. I don't know if my boyfriend would try to step in and take control or not. I honestly have no idea how he would be around my kids. It will be interesting to see how this all pans out. One thing I did tell him is that I will not live with him. If he wants to move in with me he better plan on marrying me first. I played house with my kids' dad for nine years and I refuse to do it again. I better have that ring on my finger before he even thinks of asking to live with me. I'm sure I scared him with that ultimatum, lol. I am in no way ready to live with someone, and he is in no way ready to get married, so we are good there. [/QUOTE]
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