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<blockquote data-quote="CookieMomster" data-source="post: 131040" data-attributes="member: 3936"><p>the "use the calm tone/voice" thing..ugh..i did that and...my daughter couldnt read me.....so we made an agreement I would raise my voice so she could tell when I was getting mad... of course that didnt work either. Its to a point where she ALWAYS wants to fight with me about one thing or another. If I ignore it, she yells at me MOM I AM TALKING TO YOU... If i say anything even if its to change the subject she tells me i am stupid... THIS IS NOT THE CHILD I GAVE BIRTH TO...lol. she has always been bipolar...and we knew it...just now it seems she is stuck in the B*tch phase and one of us aint going to live long in this phase. UGH...I have a friend who wants her to come stay with her and her children a few days. Daughter likes them but hates staying the night... Daughter is Baptist..this family is Pentacostal. They are verrrrrrrry straight... and I think this might be a good deal... but.. will this cause her issues with feeling abandoned? I just..worry and fret about things...I think it would help her to see what she has here... but then ..with mental illness you never know how she will react. What if she gets mad and runs away from her house? she is in town and i am in the country...</p><p></p><p>I am searching for a new doctor...our regular doctor referred us to the last quack...that was the ONLY one they could find. Yes, I would consider driving to the ends of the earth to find a good doctor, who accepts our insurance etc. </p><p></p><p>I am fine all day...about 2pm I start getting a headache..my shoulders get tense...and ..I dread her arrival home. I really wish I could find some joy with her...this truely *****.</p><p></p><p>She knows some of what she is doing...she told me tonight ..that if I make her quit cheer the rule is that you cant join another sport if you quit one...well ..she said..I will just tell them that you made me do it and you are crazy....and they will let me do whatever. SEE? she has those idiots at the school convinced I hit her and stuff.... ugh..</p><p></p><p>so... more directions??? i value all that you have told me so far... I could use that chocolate..could you send me a baileys irish creame coffee with it?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="CookieMomster, post: 131040, member: 3936"] the "use the calm tone/voice" thing..ugh..i did that and...my daughter couldnt read me.....so we made an agreement I would raise my voice so she could tell when I was getting mad... of course that didnt work either. Its to a point where she ALWAYS wants to fight with me about one thing or another. If I ignore it, she yells at me MOM I AM TALKING TO YOU... If i say anything even if its to change the subject she tells me i am stupid... THIS IS NOT THE CHILD I GAVE BIRTH TO...lol. she has always been bipolar...and we knew it...just now it seems she is stuck in the B*tch phase and one of us aint going to live long in this phase. UGH...I have a friend who wants her to come stay with her and her children a few days. Daughter likes them but hates staying the night... Daughter is Baptist..this family is Pentacostal. They are verrrrrrrry straight... and I think this might be a good deal... but.. will this cause her issues with feeling abandoned? I just..worry and fret about things...I think it would help her to see what she has here... but then ..with mental illness you never know how she will react. What if she gets mad and runs away from her house? she is in town and i am in the country... I am searching for a new doctor...our regular doctor referred us to the last quack...that was the ONLY one they could find. Yes, I would consider driving to the ends of the earth to find a good doctor, who accepts our insurance etc. I am fine all day...about 2pm I start getting a headache..my shoulders get tense...and ..I dread her arrival home. I really wish I could find some joy with her...this truely *****. She knows some of what she is doing...she told me tonight ..that if I make her quit cheer the rule is that you cant join another sport if you quit one...well ..she said..I will just tell them that you made me do it and you are crazy....and they will let me do whatever. SEE? she has those idiots at the school convinced I hit her and stuff.... ugh.. so... more directions??? i value all that you have told me so far... I could use that chocolate..could you send me a baileys irish creame coffee with it? [/QUOTE]
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