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Broken Hearted ..Did I do the right thing!
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<blockquote data-quote="AppleCori" data-source="post: 731397" data-attributes="member: 16024"><p>Hi and welcome, SM</p><p></p><p>You really have no other choice.</p><p></p><p>You have to look out for yourself first. You are approaching retirement and you need to get your finances in order. </p><p></p><p>It sounds like your daughter has basically never left your home or has been financially dependent on you all her life. That is not good for her.</p><p></p><p>There are so many supports for single women with children that she can access. She needs to start taking responsibility for her life. Time to grow up and stop being dependent on mom. This is the best thing for HER as well as you.</p><p></p><p>It is sad about your grandchildren. Many of our difficult adults try to hold us hostage with the threat to withhold visits with their children. Some actually do this, but many do not.</p><p></p><p>The bigger question is, will she actually move out when the deadline comes?</p><p></p><p>You may need to look into getting a legal eviction.</p><p></p><p>This is hard.</p><p></p><p>Stay with us, SM.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AppleCori, post: 731397, member: 16024"] Hi and welcome, SM You really have no other choice. You have to look out for yourself first. You are approaching retirement and you need to get your finances in order. It sounds like your daughter has basically never left your home or has been financially dependent on you all her life. That is not good for her. There are so many supports for single women with children that she can access. She needs to start taking responsibility for her life. Time to grow up and stop being dependent on mom. This is the best thing for HER as well as you. It is sad about your grandchildren. Many of our difficult adults try to hold us hostage with the threat to withhold visits with their children. Some actually do this, but many do not. The bigger question is, will she actually move out when the deadline comes? You may need to look into getting a legal eviction. This is hard. Stay with us, SM. [/QUOTE]
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