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Broken Hearted ..Did I do the right thing!
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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 731428" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>I'm so sorry for what you are going through.</p><p></p><p>You have done what you could to help your daughter. You have gone above and beyond what anyone should to help someone. You have made a very difficult decision in giving your daughter 30 day notice but it's really what is best for her and you.</p><p></p><p>Please know and understand that you did not create the chaos that surrounds your daughter. The only thing you have done is enable her. It's very easy to do, we start out thinking we are helping our difficult adult child and before we know it, years have passed and we come to realize we are not helping but enabling.</p><p></p><p>Now that you have made the decision to change things, be prepared. This is the time when our difficult adult children can be at their absolute worst. The will say and do anything to try and keep us in an enabling mode. While I'm sorry you had to move out of your own home, I'm glad that you are not there. You need to stay safe. Your daughter may go peacefully but she may also try and lash out. </p><p></p><p>I am so glad you found us here!! This is a great site filled with many warrior parents who have so much to offer.</p><p></p><p>Keep posting and let us know how you doing.</p><p></p><p>((HUGS)) to you................</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 731428, member: 18516"] I'm so sorry for what you are going through. You have done what you could to help your daughter. You have gone above and beyond what anyone should to help someone. You have made a very difficult decision in giving your daughter 30 day notice but it's really what is best for her and you. Please know and understand that you did not create the chaos that surrounds your daughter. The only thing you have done is enable her. It's very easy to do, we start out thinking we are helping our difficult adult child and before we know it, years have passed and we come to realize we are not helping but enabling. Now that you have made the decision to change things, be prepared. This is the time when our difficult adult children can be at their absolute worst. The will say and do anything to try and keep us in an enabling mode. While I'm sorry you had to move out of your own home, I'm glad that you are not there. You need to stay safe. Your daughter may go peacefully but she may also try and lash out. I am so glad you found us here!! This is a great site filled with many warrior parents who have so much to offer. Keep posting and let us know how you doing. ((HUGS)) to you................ [/QUOTE]
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