On the way home from school today difficult child had his backpack taken off of him and thrown in a garbage can in front of someone's house. I was not home, husband was at PT, so my sister took him to get it out. This is the same boy we have been having problems with all year, but all the events happen off school grounds. difficult child hates to be driven to and from school, and in all honesty I seem more bothered by this last incident than he is!! I am just tired of this. I do not want to call the police, as many times before now difficult child has been the bully, and we were lucky enough to not have the police called on him. I know for a fact this other boy is a difficult child and is medicated, though I do not know a diagnosis and I do not think the medications are working all that well. difficult child pleads innocent in this, says he did not do anything at all, but we know how often a difficult child is completely innocent. I am just frustrated. I may just have to figure out where this kid lives and go visit his parents, but what do I say? Make your kid be nice to mine? I am going to document all the incidents, and all phone calls with the school about this from now on. I am going to call the school and ask that the school resource officer talk to all the boys involved, and see if he/she gets more honesty. To top it off difficult child had his brand new bike helmet stolen last week!! Could not have been the same kid as it was at homework club and this kid does not go to homework club.