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<blockquote data-quote="PatriotsGirl" data-source="post: 561726"><p>I really, really appreciate your response!! I fully plan on including her if she is still there - I was excited and looking forward to it. But if she leaves treatment between now and then, I am rescinding the invitation. If she leaves, it means she is active in her addiction and I will need to remove myself. I can no longer watch her kill herself and it is just too hard on me to see her that way. She told me that is why she stayed away for so long - to save me from having to see her. I am thinking the reason she has not reached out is shame. She has talked to others, just not me. </p><p></p><p>You are so right. I cannot pretend that I don't know. She does need to be accountable and honest. But I will not beat her up over it, I need to just reinforce my boundaries. Especially now that my health depends on it. </p><p></p><p>Thank you!!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="PatriotsGirl, post: 561726"] I really, really appreciate your response!! I fully plan on including her if she is still there - I was excited and looking forward to it. But if she leaves treatment between now and then, I am rescinding the invitation. If she leaves, it means she is active in her addiction and I will need to remove myself. I can no longer watch her kill herself and it is just too hard on me to see her that way. She told me that is why she stayed away for so long - to save me from having to see her. I am thinking the reason she has not reached out is shame. She has talked to others, just not me. You are so right. I cannot pretend that I don't know. She does need to be accountable and honest. But I will not beat her up over it, I need to just reinforce my boundaries. Especially now that my health depends on it. Thank you!!!! [/QUOTE]
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