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<blockquote data-quote="idohope" data-source="post: 388263" data-attributes="member: 7722"><p>Thank you all for your replies. The support is always appreciated. I will get the help for difficult child. I have been doing it for years now. But I just can not tolerate any more how H does not want to deal with it and keeps saying she will be fine and he can not be bothered with more therapy. That it cuts into sports time (for him). easy child 1 struggles so much and keeps asking why dont we do more to help difficult child (because of the huge impact difficult child has on our lives) and its all I can do some days to keep from screaming that everything takes twice as long because I have to do it myself, or take the time to get H on board or stop him from working against anything put in place. He has gone to doctor appts. If he does agree to do anything in the office he does not follow through once we are home. Two pyschologists, a neuropychologist, and a pyschiatrist have all explained that difficult child has an illness and that she needs help and medication to lead a normal life and he does not seem to get it or care about her life. It is all about him. If her behavior is out of control then it is poor him and what he has to deal with in having a child like that and if she having a good day then it is see there is no problem...It is so hurtful to me and I hurt for difficult child that he does not want to do what it takes to help her.</p><p></p><p>Thank you again for your responses.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="idohope, post: 388263, member: 7722"] Thank you all for your replies. The support is always appreciated. I will get the help for difficult child. I have been doing it for years now. But I just can not tolerate any more how H does not want to deal with it and keeps saying she will be fine and he can not be bothered with more therapy. That it cuts into sports time (for him). easy child 1 struggles so much and keeps asking why dont we do more to help difficult child (because of the huge impact difficult child has on our lives) and its all I can do some days to keep from screaming that everything takes twice as long because I have to do it myself, or take the time to get H on board or stop him from working against anything put in place. He has gone to doctor appts. If he does agree to do anything in the office he does not follow through once we are home. Two pyschologists, a neuropychologist, and a pyschiatrist have all explained that difficult child has an illness and that she needs help and medication to lead a normal life and he does not seem to get it or care about her life. It is all about him. If her behavior is out of control then it is poor him and what he has to deal with in having a child like that and if she having a good day then it is see there is no problem...It is so hurtful to me and I hurt for difficult child that he does not want to do what it takes to help her. Thank you again for your responses. [/QUOTE]
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