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call 911 on difficult child again, he is out of our house now
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<blockquote data-quote="Signorina" data-source="post: 506171"><p>PV - your statement about pleading with him to get in the car struck a chord with me too. Despite my anguish, I still feel ridiculous that H and I basically chased difficult child being more and more polite and more and more accommodating while he strung us along like a bunch of fools. Seriously, he was packing his bags to leave and I was pleading with him to stay - even kissing him and telling him I would always love him. And he was totally cold and even so, I packed a bag of groceries for him to take with him. And he took them. He also had no problem taking the rent check from H, yet then turned and gave my wonderful H the finger as he walked away. Sometimes I wonder where the heck my self respect went.</p><p></p><p>I too struggle with the neighbor/girlfriend's family who is enabling my difficult child. Before difficult child changed his email password last week, I saw an email from his girlfriend's dad suggesting specific factory jobs for difficult child to apply to. (nothing wrong with factory jobs BUT) They knew my son as a straight A HS student going to college with plans for PhD-to-MD degree. Yet now this man is suggesting minimum wage FACTORY jobs to my college fail-out so that he can continue to circumvent his parents in the name of being independent???? I realize difficult child is probably feeding them a line of bull - but look at the FACTS for crying out loud. I pleaded with them to help -or at least watch out for my son and they ignored me. And now it's 6 months later and my kid is a mess and they are still backing him and refusing to communicate with us. BE THE GROWN UPS!!! Aaaackkkkk</p><p></p><p>OK - enough hijacking your thread with my saga for now. FWIW - yesterday, I re read the pleading email I sent to the girlfriend's parents in September and I still can't believe they totally disregarded it. WHAT IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Signorina, post: 506171"] PV - your statement about pleading with him to get in the car struck a chord with me too. Despite my anguish, I still feel ridiculous that H and I basically chased difficult child being more and more polite and more and more accommodating while he strung us along like a bunch of fools. Seriously, he was packing his bags to leave and I was pleading with him to stay - even kissing him and telling him I would always love him. And he was totally cold and even so, I packed a bag of groceries for him to take with him. And he took them. He also had no problem taking the rent check from H, yet then turned and gave my wonderful H the finger as he walked away. Sometimes I wonder where the heck my self respect went. I too struggle with the neighbor/girlfriend's family who is enabling my difficult child. Before difficult child changed his email password last week, I saw an email from his girlfriend's dad suggesting specific factory jobs for difficult child to apply to. (nothing wrong with factory jobs BUT) They knew my son as a straight A HS student going to college with plans for PhD-to-MD degree. Yet now this man is suggesting minimum wage FACTORY jobs to my college fail-out so that he can continue to circumvent his parents in the name of being independent???? I realize difficult child is probably feeding them a line of bull - but look at the FACTS for crying out loud. I pleaded with them to help -or at least watch out for my son and they ignored me. And now it's 6 months later and my kid is a mess and they are still backing him and refusing to communicate with us. BE THE GROWN UPS!!! Aaaackkkkk OK - enough hijacking your thread with my saga for now. FWIW - yesterday, I re read the pleading email I sent to the girlfriend's parents in September and I still can't believe they totally disregarded it. WHAT IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE? [/QUOTE]
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