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<blockquote data-quote="ML" data-source="post: 438807"><p>We have similar space issues and husband is what I lovingly refer to as my borderline horder. And difficult child lacks the putting stuff away skills too (and I can't help but wonder if it's part of the Executive Functioning stuff). If husband and I have one recurring argument it is the one he sees as the "why can't she leave my stuff alone" that I see as "why can't he put/throw his stuff away" and frantically throw in drawers and open spaces when people come to visit. I am also a neat freak. I cannot stand disorder in my environment or it too makes me nuttier than I already am. Which is pretty darn nutty lol.</p><p></p><p>I would point it out in a very nonconfronting way but personally, I've done that and done the "gone bezerk" route too and we still have the same problem.</p><p></p><p>I am encouraged by the fact that he is trying to at least put his stuff away. Ideally it would be nice to see him put everyone's away but not if he's going to do the wad and throw method. Keep up the good work Shari.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ML, post: 438807"] We have similar space issues and husband is what I lovingly refer to as my borderline horder. And difficult child lacks the putting stuff away skills too (and I can't help but wonder if it's part of the Executive Functioning stuff). If husband and I have one recurring argument it is the one he sees as the "why can't she leave my stuff alone" that I see as "why can't he put/throw his stuff away" and frantically throw in drawers and open spaces when people come to visit. I am also a neat freak. I cannot stand disorder in my environment or it too makes me nuttier than I already am. Which is pretty darn nutty lol. I would point it out in a very nonconfronting way but personally, I've done that and done the "gone bezerk" route too and we still have the same problem. I am encouraged by the fact that he is trying to at least put his stuff away. Ideally it would be nice to see him put everyone's away but not if he's going to do the wad and throw method. Keep up the good work Shari. [/QUOTE]
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