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<blockquote data-quote="Shari" data-source="post: 438825" data-attributes="member: 1848"><p>I seem to be good at boundaries with everyone but the man i'm married to, and I don't know if its that I'm that bad at them, or if its just that he absolutely refuses to abide by any but the brooms'. If he borrows something of theirs? OMG the world will stop turning if its not back on time or sooner. But the booms he <em>took</em> without asking easy child (and the booms easy child usually keeps locked up because of husband - but didn't have locked up because easy child doesn't LIVE HERE ANYMORE, he was here visiting and his truck was in the driveway!!! OMG) are still rolling around in the back of MY truck cause he never bothered to return them. Its never ending.</p><p>I'm really thinking this is a problem beyond anything I can tackle. When I get him to do something in one place, he just lets another go to hell. And he doesn't care. He had the gonads to call easy child 1 yesterday and tell him that he didn't park the trailer right when he borrowed it last week. He didn't put the plug in the right place, and he didn't lock the hitch down with the pin in it. OMG, really? You have just left his booms in the back of my truck for 3 weeks in the rain, and you're griping at him cause he didn't place the plug thru the spare tire, and he left the hitch open with the pin in it, instead of locked down with the pin in it? </p><p>Unless I'm willing to just giive up and live like the brooms, I'm not sure this is a winnable situation. I have dedicated to myself, that since the accident and the investment of a trainer for my horse, come hell or high water I WILL ride that horse 3 days a week every week. I owe that to myself. And I have been doing it. But, he lost the pasture close to the house, and I'm really fighting resentment for that now, too. I either have to keep my horse in the dry lot and hay him every day, or I have to go to the back 40 to find him, because thanks to husband and the brooms, we lost the pasture that is outside my window and its now leased to the neighbors. But its no skin off his back.</p><p>Oh, and step, the outbuildings....don't feel alone. One entire stall in the barn is full of "stuff". The 2 bay shed here you can barely fit the lawnmower in. The one-bay shed has the buggy in it, but that's all that will fit, and that's with precision parking. His folks have a 4 bay garage that you can't park a 4wheeler in....and one bay is "his"</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shari, post: 438825, member: 1848"] I seem to be good at boundaries with everyone but the man i'm married to, and I don't know if its that I'm that bad at them, or if its just that he absolutely refuses to abide by any but the brooms'. If he borrows something of theirs? OMG the world will stop turning if its not back on time or sooner. But the booms he [I]took[/I] without asking easy child (and the booms easy child usually keeps locked up because of husband - but didn't have locked up because easy child doesn't LIVE HERE ANYMORE, he was here visiting and his truck was in the driveway!!! OMG) are still rolling around in the back of MY truck cause he never bothered to return them. Its never ending. I'm really thinking this is a problem beyond anything I can tackle. When I get him to do something in one place, he just lets another go to hell. And he doesn't care. He had the gonads to call easy child 1 yesterday and tell him that he didn't park the trailer right when he borrowed it last week. He didn't put the plug in the right place, and he didn't lock the hitch down with the pin in it. OMG, really? You have just left his booms in the back of my truck for 3 weeks in the rain, and you're griping at him cause he didn't place the plug thru the spare tire, and he left the hitch open with the pin in it, instead of locked down with the pin in it? Unless I'm willing to just giive up and live like the brooms, I'm not sure this is a winnable situation. I have dedicated to myself, that since the accident and the investment of a trainer for my horse, come hell or high water I WILL ride that horse 3 days a week every week. I owe that to myself. And I have been doing it. But, he lost the pasture close to the house, and I'm really fighting resentment for that now, too. I either have to keep my horse in the dry lot and hay him every day, or I have to go to the back 40 to find him, because thanks to husband and the brooms, we lost the pasture that is outside my window and its now leased to the neighbors. But its no skin off his back. Oh, and step, the outbuildings....don't feel alone. One entire stall in the barn is full of "stuff". The 2 bay shed here you can barely fit the lawnmower in. The one-bay shed has the buggy in it, but that's all that will fit, and that's with precision parking. His folks have a 4 bay garage that you can't park a 4wheeler in....and one bay is "his" [/QUOTE]
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