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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 173476" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Bertie</p><p> </p><p>First I'm going to answer a question I spotted in your other post per difficult child being on the girlfriend's baby's birth certificate. If he isn't the father, all he has to do contact welfare (I assume that's the DCFS??) and tell them he wants a DNA test done to prove he's not the father. The test is free. </p><p> </p><p>(I didn't know if anyone else had addressed that question for you)</p><p> </p><p>As for the money..........</p><p> </p><p>I'm wondering if difficult child isn't viewing it as his "safety net" in a way.</p><p> </p><p>My sister in law has a good friend who inherited a vast amount of money from his grandmother. He made 2 sound perchases: a new car, and a house with quite a bit of land. Then I think he went brain dead because the boy blew the rest. (I'm talking houndreds of thousands of dollars here)</p><p> </p><p>The boy is a good kid, a easy child. But the money seemed like an endless amount until it was gone. 3 years later, he's kicking himself in the rear. Thank goodness he had paid the house and car in full.</p><p> </p><p>So, it can even mess up a easy child.</p><p> </p><p>If it were me and I was fed up with listening to difficult child stuff, I'd either spend it or hand it over. Most likely the latter. Then it would be up to him.</p><p> </p><p>((hugs))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 173476, member: 84"] Bertie First I'm going to answer a question I spotted in your other post per difficult child being on the girlfriend's baby's birth certificate. If he isn't the father, all he has to do contact welfare (I assume that's the DCFS??) and tell them he wants a DNA test done to prove he's not the father. The test is free. (I didn't know if anyone else had addressed that question for you) As for the money.......... I'm wondering if difficult child isn't viewing it as his "safety net" in a way. My sister in law has a good friend who inherited a vast amount of money from his grandmother. He made 2 sound perchases: a new car, and a house with quite a bit of land. Then I think he went brain dead because the boy blew the rest. (I'm talking houndreds of thousands of dollars here) The boy is a good kid, a easy child. But the money seemed like an endless amount until it was gone. 3 years later, he's kicking himself in the rear. Thank goodness he had paid the house and car in full. So, it can even mess up a easy child. If it were me and I was fed up with listening to difficult child stuff, I'd either spend it or hand it over. Most likely the latter. Then it would be up to him. ((hugs)) [/QUOTE]
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