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<blockquote data-quote="flutterby" data-source="post: 429192" data-attributes="member: 7083"><p>1. You are entitled to have your own thing outside of difficult child or anyone else. I would let Ms Ally know that this one is non-negotiable. This is what you do to keep your sanity. </p><p></p><p>2. Step is right. Apologizing when difficult child calls you a name is victim behavior and a really bad idea.</p><p></p><p>3. I would ask Ms Ally to be there - either in person or on the phone - when you attempt to set a limit to a rage and the fallout after. If I even attempt to talk to difficult child when she's raging, it is guaranteed to escalate and last longer. She needs to personally witness the consequences of what she's asking you to do. </p><p></p><p>She has no clue. I'm sorry.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="flutterby, post: 429192, member: 7083"] 1. You are entitled to have your own thing outside of difficult child or anyone else. I would let Ms Ally know that this one is non-negotiable. This is what you do to keep your sanity. 2. Step is right. Apologizing when difficult child calls you a name is victim behavior and a really bad idea. 3. I would ask Ms Ally to be there - either in person or on the phone - when you attempt to set a limit to a rage and the fallout after. If I even attempt to talk to difficult child when she's raging, it is guaranteed to escalate and last longer. She needs to personally witness the consequences of what she's asking you to do. She has no clue. I'm sorry. [/QUOTE]
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