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<blockquote data-quote="Steely" data-source="post: 438487" data-attributes="member: 3301"><p>Yes RM and Janet - I totally totally agree. Janet, exactly if he had Downs then any help I gave him would be received.</p><p></p><p>I know all of this in my mind, and that is really a step in the right direction for me. For the last 20 years I have been ever so hopeful that "he would get it". In fact I need to change my sig - because perhaps giving up hope if the very first step to healthy detachment. I just have to apply what I "know" to my heart/soul. And that is a process involving many huge deep breaths, and in my opinion many walls that need to be constructed around my heart. They are building however - I can feel it.</p><p></p><p>We will see. It is very hard for me not to ask the "W" questions - who, why, when, where, how etc. Instead when he calls I am just listening, and saying neutral comments.....like "interesting".</p><p> Just like when he texted me his new tatoo of a pot leaf.<img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/stopglass.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":stopglass:" title="stopglass :stopglass:" data-shortname=":stopglass:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Steely, post: 438487, member: 3301"] Yes RM and Janet - I totally totally agree. Janet, exactly if he had Downs then any help I gave him would be received. I know all of this in my mind, and that is really a step in the right direction for me. For the last 20 years I have been ever so hopeful that "he would get it". In fact I need to change my sig - because perhaps giving up hope if the very first step to healthy detachment. I just have to apply what I "know" to my heart/soul. And that is a process involving many huge deep breaths, and in my opinion many walls that need to be constructed around my heart. They are building however - I can feel it. We will see. It is very hard for me not to ask the "W" questions - who, why, when, where, how etc. Instead when he calls I am just listening, and saying neutral comments.....like "interesting". Just like when he texted me his new tatoo of a pot leaf.:stopglass: [/QUOTE]
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