Hi. New to the board. Married 13 years with DS age 8 and daughter age 5. DS just completed Learning Disability (LD) testing and their diagnosis was that he is not dyslexia, but most probably has ADHD and also ODD. DS is almost always well behaved when not at home, but goes on rampages at home when 1. I say "no" to something or 2. after ingesting soda pop, sno cones or certain candy. (Allergy testing was neg for sugar, corn, food coloring) Tonight he trashed the house and almost bit me. By the time husband came home, most of the rampage was over. I took daughter and left in the car. When we came back, DS was playing with the toy I said he couldn't have. husband let him stay up late, have snacks and stories. One of our big problems is that husband will not follow thru with ANY consequences with the kids. We have been advised by counselor that we are in for big trouble if we don't get on the same page and be consistent. I am about ready to take my daughter and leave, so she can have a normal life.