For a while now we've been dealing with my 13 year old son who has been struggling with ADHD and Bipolar, along with difiant behavior.
We made a change in medications recently and I thought we were starting to turn a corner. He graduated and we had about a two weeks stretch where he was calm and fairly obedient and respectful.
Then last night he pitched a fit when we told him no (wanted to sleep over at a friend's house for the third time this week...) and ended up spiking/exploding a can of pop all over his little sister's bedroom. I finally got her in bed around 11:30 after wiping down all the walls and the ceiling, changing the bed, shampooing the rug, and sorting out the stuffed animals and laundry that now had to be re-washed -- sobbing the whole time.
He ended up taking off for the friend's house without our permission. My husband refused to send the police to go pick him up, so he got away with his atrocious behavior again.
One step forward, one step back... I don't know where to find the strength to keep up this battle....
We made a change in medications recently and I thought we were starting to turn a corner. He graduated and we had about a two weeks stretch where he was calm and fairly obedient and respectful.
Then last night he pitched a fit when we told him no (wanted to sleep over at a friend's house for the third time this week...) and ended up spiking/exploding a can of pop all over his little sister's bedroom. I finally got her in bed around 11:30 after wiping down all the walls and the ceiling, changing the bed, shampooing the rug, and sorting out the stuffed animals and laundry that now had to be re-washed -- sobbing the whole time.
He ended up taking off for the friend's house without our permission. My husband refused to send the police to go pick him up, so he got away with his atrocious behavior again.
One step forward, one step back... I don't know where to find the strength to keep up this battle....