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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 78715" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Hey, take a deep breath. Slowly. Let it out. It doesn't help with difficult child behavior, but it can help keep our bloodpressure from skyrocketing.</p><p></p><p>I think you very much need to get some more help from the psychiatrist and the neurologist. If he has seizures they can be the cause of the behavior. And he really can't prevent or change it. </p><p></p><p>SaraPA is a really great resource for info on these seizures. She has done so much research on complex partial seizures and really understands much of the more technical literature. So you might try to catch her and PM her. She often has info that even the docs are not up to date on.</p><p></p><p>I think that it will be a long road if you expect mother in law to validate any of your feelings. If things go the way most of us have experienced at some time or other (or all the time), the person will tell you that the behavior is "normal", "all kids throw tantrums, you just need to x,y,z and it will be fixed" or "It is your behavior making him do/say/think/see/ scream these things."</p><p></p><p>The person telling you that this is normal, that it is your fault, etc.... Is WRONG. </p><p></p><p>Your instincts told you there was a problem. That is how you found the complex partial seizures. your instincts are telling you he needs help NOW. Next time try to take easy child with you,hard though that is. Or, if possibly, ask a sympathetic person in your church, school, wherever, (someone who is not related is often easier to get help from) to be able to have you drop easy child off and go tot he hospital.</p><p></p><p>A Children's hospital is a great place to get help. I am glad you have one you can reach.</p><p></p><p>Hugs and understanding,</p><p></p><p>Susie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 78715, member: 1233"] Hey, take a deep breath. Slowly. Let it out. It doesn't help with difficult child behavior, but it can help keep our bloodpressure from skyrocketing. I think you very much need to get some more help from the psychiatrist and the neurologist. If he has seizures they can be the cause of the behavior. And he really can't prevent or change it. SaraPA is a really great resource for info on these seizures. She has done so much research on complex partial seizures and really understands much of the more technical literature. So you might try to catch her and PM her. She often has info that even the docs are not up to date on. I think that it will be a long road if you expect mother in law to validate any of your feelings. If things go the way most of us have experienced at some time or other (or all the time), the person will tell you that the behavior is "normal", "all kids throw tantrums, you just need to x,y,z and it will be fixed" or "It is your behavior making him do/say/think/see/ scream these things." The person telling you that this is normal, that it is your fault, etc.... Is WRONG. Your instincts told you there was a problem. That is how you found the complex partial seizures. your instincts are telling you he needs help NOW. Next time try to take easy child with you,hard though that is. Or, if possibly, ask a sympathetic person in your church, school, wherever, (someone who is not related is often easier to get help from) to be able to have you drop easy child off and go tot he hospital. A Children's hospital is a great place to get help. I am glad you have one you can reach. Hugs and understanding, Susie [/QUOTE]
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