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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 582904" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>Oh wow. Do you agree with husband that he couldn't even come visit? Is that because of x and his behaviors or because he is mad at difficult child 1? Or somethng else? </p><p></p><p>First, consider the source. As you said, his saying that to his brother could mean anything. Second, is it even safe to consider that, or has x improved? </p><p></p><p>Anyway, no need to decide now and if it's not acceptable to cut off all contact in your opinion, you can put that into words later. If it's about the other kids, maybe you can have other ways to be with him....</p><p></p><p>Deep breath, there is time to sort it out. I'm sorry this is weighing heavy on your heart.</p><p></p><p></p><p>If it turns out this is manipulation by difficult child 1, and he doesn't really want to go, that will be another issue all together. Maybe his therapist can explore it with him to find out?</p><p></p><p>Hugs, I can't imagine how sad it must feel.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 582904, member: 12886"] Oh wow. Do you agree with husband that he couldn't even come visit? Is that because of x and his behaviors or because he is mad at difficult child 1? Or somethng else? First, consider the source. As you said, his saying that to his brother could mean anything. Second, is it even safe to consider that, or has x improved? Anyway, no need to decide now and if it's not acceptable to cut off all contact in your opinion, you can put that into words later. If it's about the other kids, maybe you can have other ways to be with him.... Deep breath, there is time to sort it out. I'm sorry this is weighing heavy on your heart. If it turns out this is manipulation by difficult child 1, and he doesn't really want to go, that will be another issue all together. Maybe his therapist can explore it with him to find out? Hugs, I can't imagine how sad it must feel. [/QUOTE]
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