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<blockquote data-quote="Gone" data-source="post: 640348"><p>Yes I agree with your statements!</p><p></p><p>They want to get rid of the cases as quickly as possible!!</p><p></p><p>To ME it's not JD , job done , until it actually IS job done otherwise they are just setting up people to FAIL with a CHILD in the middle of the 'experiment' to 'see' if Mother is capable of having him yet..</p><p></p><p>I don't know if I am coming or going with SS sometimes and sometimes I think neither do THEY - How the hell can I know what to do if THEY don't know what to do! All I can do is give them the CURRENT INFORMATION for them to work with but I often feel like I am more cautious than THEM when it comes to child protection as I don't even want my GS to be AROUND my difficult child if she is drinking but they say it is ok as LONG AS I AM THERE but is it REALLY good for my GS to WITNESS HIS MOTHER DRUNK??? ......NO so I have told them I WILL BE BRINGING HIM HERE to my house if she drinks again , same with the cannabis smoking which I do not agree with either and I do NOT want my GS getting in her car if she has had a spliff and it is ILLEGAL for a REASON - I WILL NOT stand by and watch my GS in danger but have a feeling if I ring SS they won't even take it seriously!</p><p></p><p>I would love to go for custody if there is no change or progress , even so the first year of recovery is tentative! :-/</p><p></p><p>Will be there and watch my GS and my difficult child's every move if I have to</p><p></p><p>SS can't be there all the time but I can as much as humanly possible , saying that that is what caused me to suffer from exhaustion in the first place so it is a difficult situation for MY HEALTH!</p><p></p><p>If I can seperate the 2 it's fine , if I am IMMERSED in my daughter's stuff because my GS is then my health can become affected but will still have to do all I can to protect my GS</p><p></p><p>I cannot BELIEVE SS said NO to me regarding having him!!!</p><p></p><p>I still can't believe it and sometimes ( like the comment above says ) I LOOK at the social workers and think to myself ''ACTUALLY I AM MORE HEALTHY AND STABLE THAN YOU ARE''!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!</p><p></p><p>Yet they have the cheek to tell me what to do and what I am capable or rather not capable of when I know 110% I am more capable than they would ever know! lol</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Gone, post: 640348"] Yes I agree with your statements! They want to get rid of the cases as quickly as possible!! To ME it's not JD , job done , until it actually IS job done otherwise they are just setting up people to FAIL with a CHILD in the middle of the 'experiment' to 'see' if Mother is capable of having him yet.. I don't know if I am coming or going with SS sometimes and sometimes I think neither do THEY - How the hell can I know what to do if THEY don't know what to do! All I can do is give them the CURRENT INFORMATION for them to work with but I often feel like I am more cautious than THEM when it comes to child protection as I don't even want my GS to be AROUND my difficult child if she is drinking but they say it is ok as LONG AS I AM THERE but is it REALLY good for my GS to WITNESS HIS MOTHER DRUNK??? ......NO so I have told them I WILL BE BRINGING HIM HERE to my house if she drinks again , same with the cannabis smoking which I do not agree with either and I do NOT want my GS getting in her car if she has had a spliff and it is ILLEGAL for a REASON - I WILL NOT stand by and watch my GS in danger but have a feeling if I ring SS they won't even take it seriously! I would love to go for custody if there is no change or progress , even so the first year of recovery is tentative! :-/ Will be there and watch my GS and my difficult child's every move if I have to SS can't be there all the time but I can as much as humanly possible , saying that that is what caused me to suffer from exhaustion in the first place so it is a difficult situation for MY HEALTH! If I can seperate the 2 it's fine , if I am IMMERSED in my daughter's stuff because my GS is then my health can become affected but will still have to do all I can to protect my GS I cannot BELIEVE SS said NO to me regarding having him!!! I still can't believe it and sometimes ( like the comment above says ) I LOOK at the social workers and think to myself ''ACTUALLY I AM MORE HEALTHY AND STABLE THAN YOU ARE''!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Yet they have the cheek to tell me what to do and what I am capable or rather not capable of when I know 110% I am more capable than they would ever know! lol [/QUOTE]
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