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<blockquote data-quote="Gone" data-source="post: 640395"><p>Thing is standing by and watching my GS being harmed by BOTH parties is becoming unbearable now , feel so helpless as AM helpless as the authorities have all the power and REVEL in it</p><p></p><p>I am TRYING to work WITH THEM SO MUCH but I seem to get ignored , till when I am needed in a CRISIS situation THEY can't stay overnight at my difficult child's house , move in , supervise her , watch her etc my GS's DAD is USELESS , no one else steps in and gives overnight care to my GS so other family members 'pop in and help' but LEAVE so I am suitable for overseeing him in a CRISIS situation but NOT BEFORE?????????</p><p></p><p>And even THEN they expect me not to fail , not to get exhausted , not to have a real break and one little crack in the brickwork under the strain and its shown as 'not being capable'</p><p></p><p>I often think they are looking for someone PERFECT when they are not even perfect THEMSELVES , let them move in and deal what I have during this past year , with 3 bereavements on top of it and see how THEY would ruddy well cope! .... I would never want to be a social worker but THEY CAN GO HOME AFTERWARDS ........THIS IS MY <strong>LIFE!!!!!!!!!</strong></p><p></p><p>And I hate it - I don't hate MY life I hate my difficult child's life and the IMPACT it has had on the rest of us PARTICULARLY myself and my little GS , he has ENOUGH struggles with his special needs bless him , with frustration , not understanding what is happening , bl**dy recipe for INSECURITY , but I hope it will be all over soon and that things will IMPROVE not worsen as HIS LIFE has to go forward now and IMPROVE he has been through enough , we have all been through enough but it is AT ONE PERSONS HANDS who has the cheek to <strong>blame me</strong> for everything , yes , don't look at your OWN LIFE and take responsibility for your choices your actions your behaviour , blame it all on MUM only because she DARED to <strong>tell the truth</strong> to social services which was the ACTUAL TRUTH , wasn't making it up , own up , come clean , change things , take ownership and responsibility for your actions but then make the neccessary changes to improve your life and get back on an even better track than before ie a HEALED one!!! xx</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Gone, post: 640395"] Thing is standing by and watching my GS being harmed by BOTH parties is becoming unbearable now , feel so helpless as AM helpless as the authorities have all the power and REVEL in it I am TRYING to work WITH THEM SO MUCH but I seem to get ignored , till when I am needed in a CRISIS situation THEY can't stay overnight at my difficult child's house , move in , supervise her , watch her etc my GS's DAD is USELESS , no one else steps in and gives overnight care to my GS so other family members 'pop in and help' but LEAVE so I am suitable for overseeing him in a CRISIS situation but NOT BEFORE????????? And even THEN they expect me not to fail , not to get exhausted , not to have a real break and one little crack in the brickwork under the strain and its shown as 'not being capable' I often think they are looking for someone PERFECT when they are not even perfect THEMSELVES , let them move in and deal what I have during this past year , with 3 bereavements on top of it and see how THEY would ruddy well cope! .... I would never want to be a social worker but THEY CAN GO HOME AFTERWARDS ........THIS IS MY [B]LIFE!!!!!!!!![/B] And I hate it - I don't hate MY life I hate my difficult child's life and the IMPACT it has had on the rest of us PARTICULARLY myself and my little GS , he has ENOUGH struggles with his special needs bless him , with frustration , not understanding what is happening , bl**dy recipe for INSECURITY , but I hope it will be all over soon and that things will IMPROVE not worsen as HIS LIFE has to go forward now and IMPROVE he has been through enough , we have all been through enough but it is AT ONE PERSONS HANDS who has the cheek to [B]blame me[/B] for everything , yes , don't look at your OWN LIFE and take responsibility for your choices your actions your behaviour , blame it all on MUM only because she DARED to [B]tell the truth[/B] to social services which was the ACTUAL TRUTH , wasn't making it up , own up , come clean , change things , take ownership and responsibility for your actions but then make the neccessary changes to improve your life and get back on an even better track than before ie a HEALED one!!! xx [/QUOTE]
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