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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 182648" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>boyfriend doesn't treat Nichole any better around his family. A fact that ticks his grandparents off to no end as they've grown to love Nichole.</p><p> </p><p>Witz, I would have walked out at the movies too. But Nichole is still learning. Both easy child and I had told her last night he'd have been toast 4 yrs ago when he didn't defend her when some other guy grabbed her breast if he'd been our boyfriend. lol </p><p> </p><p>I'm just releaved she's finally starting the "I deserve to be treated with respect" thing. I was worried she might never get it.</p><p> </p><p>I wonder if the being able to maintain stability without medications has been an eye opener for Nichole. boyfriend was drumming into her head that everything was her fault because she is crazy. That everything she felt, every emotion she had, ect was because she is crazy. He was always the victim, when in fact 90 percent of the time the opposite was true.</p><p> </p><p>Now off medications for many months, still stable, she is beginning to see she has a right to feel her own feelings and that her emotions are valid, not simply because she is "crazy". She still will ask easy child or I for reassurance that her reactions are normal for given circumstances, he had drummed that into her head so much.</p><p> </p><p>I hope she continues to gain confidence and demand respect. As for kicking him to the curb, like I said, I'm not getting hopes up yet.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 182648, member: 84"] boyfriend doesn't treat Nichole any better around his family. A fact that ticks his grandparents off to no end as they've grown to love Nichole. Witz, I would have walked out at the movies too. But Nichole is still learning. Both easy child and I had told her last night he'd have been toast 4 yrs ago when he didn't defend her when some other guy grabbed her breast if he'd been our boyfriend. lol I'm just releaved she's finally starting the "I deserve to be treated with respect" thing. I was worried she might never get it. I wonder if the being able to maintain stability without medications has been an eye opener for Nichole. boyfriend was drumming into her head that everything was her fault because she is crazy. That everything she felt, every emotion she had, ect was because she is crazy. He was always the victim, when in fact 90 percent of the time the opposite was true. Now off medications for many months, still stable, she is beginning to see she has a right to feel her own feelings and that her emotions are valid, not simply because she is "crazy". She still will ask easy child or I for reassurance that her reactions are normal for given circumstances, he had drummed that into her head so much. I hope she continues to gain confidence and demand respect. As for kicking him to the curb, like I said, I'm not getting hopes up yet. [/QUOTE]
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