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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 569594" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>Every single book I read on attachment said a therapist not specifically trained in the unique therapy for Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) does more harm than no therapist. Just quit. It's not worth it. Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) kids are experts at dividing adults. They can't make any progress in a home where people are divided. Check out Nancy Thomas ...online and her books. They will.support you. </p><p></p><p>I'm so sorry husband went immediately back to same old once he thought he talked you out of moving. You are being so brave. And yes, a child is abusing you. Not his fault he is wired that way but you can't fix it. And your staying actually will just make him worse. </p><p></p><p>For now, using the explosive child ideas...maybe prioritize what your battles are. Reading would be an absolute let it go (basket c) item. For now just work on safety items. Can't be alone with easy child you or animals. If you can't take the dog with you it must be re-homed. </p><p></p><p>It all is so hard. Stay strong. Setting those boundaries/leaving is a loving act for both children.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 569594, member: 12886"] Every single book I read on attachment said a therapist not specifically trained in the unique therapy for Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) does more harm than no therapist. Just quit. It's not worth it. Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) kids are experts at dividing adults. They can't make any progress in a home where people are divided. Check out Nancy Thomas ...online and her books. They will.support you. I'm so sorry husband went immediately back to same old once he thought he talked you out of moving. You are being so brave. And yes, a child is abusing you. Not his fault he is wired that way but you can't fix it. And your staying actually will just make him worse. For now, using the explosive child ideas...maybe prioritize what your battles are. Reading would be an absolute let it go (basket c) item. For now just work on safety items. Can't be alone with easy child you or animals. If you can't take the dog with you it must be re-homed. It all is so hard. Stay strong. Setting those boundaries/leaving is a loving act for both children. [/QUOTE]
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