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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 569595" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>HR, I find it very disturbing that your husband minimizes your feelings and the abuse your younger son is experiencing (as well as the dog) My gut instinct is that you are in the middle of a really abusive situation with a husband who is basically unconscious and unwilling to face the truth. It makes sense in a warped way that he is wanting things to stay as they are since without you in the picture, HE would have to deal with difficult child. He seems to have a huge investment in that which puts the rest of you at considerable risk. Telling you that you are "ridiculous" and that you are "allowing him to make you feel this way" is certainly maddening and discounting your feelings. but it is wildly out of touch with reality and in my opinion is designed to keep you there and manipulate you into feeling guilty for what you feel so that you won't make any changes. Don't let your husband keep you and your younger son in an unsafe place. Ask yourself what the best course of action is and follow it, no matter what............I am worried about you and your youngest son. Your son is being abused.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 569595, member: 13542"] HR, I find it very disturbing that your husband minimizes your feelings and the abuse your younger son is experiencing (as well as the dog) My gut instinct is that you are in the middle of a really abusive situation with a husband who is basically unconscious and unwilling to face the truth. It makes sense in a warped way that he is wanting things to stay as they are since without you in the picture, HE would have to deal with difficult child. He seems to have a huge investment in that which puts the rest of you at considerable risk. Telling you that you are "ridiculous" and that you are "allowing him to make you feel this way" is certainly maddening and discounting your feelings. but it is wildly out of touch with reality and in my opinion is designed to keep you there and manipulate you into feeling guilty for what you feel so that you won't make any changes. Don't let your husband keep you and your younger son in an unsafe place. Ask yourself what the best course of action is and follow it, no matter what............I am worried about you and your youngest son. Your son is being abused. [/QUOTE]
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