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<blockquote data-quote="donna723" data-source="post: 88808" data-attributes="member: 1883"><p>Karen, I'm one of those who will never be convinced that he doesn't know exactly what he's doing by confiding every last little lurid detail of his "new life" to your BFF! He's channeling it all through her, knowing it's going straight back to you, just to keep that connection, to keep you involved. Before you were separated, did he find the need to confide his every move to your BFF? Obvious not, or you would have known that he was cheating! Remember, he's only telling her what he wants <em>you</em> to hear! It may or may not be the truth. And honestly, he sounds so much like my ex ... wouldn't know the truth if it came up and bit him in the butt!</p><p></p><p>And I know it's very uncomfortable to find out that he's spreading lies about you, but try not to worry about it. My ex did that too - tried his darndest to shift the blame, accused ME of cheating, tried to make it all MY fault! And you know what? <u>Nobody</u> believed him! They knew him and they knew me and not a soul believed him. They thought it just made him look all the more pathetic! And if somebody didn't know me, I could care less what they thought. And even some that didn't know me soon figured out that he was lying, and it made him look even worse. Just try to rise above it all, don't take the bait, don't get involved or try to defend yourself. You don't need to, and anybody who matters already knows this.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="donna723, post: 88808, member: 1883"] Karen, I'm one of those who will never be convinced that he doesn't know exactly what he's doing by confiding every last little lurid detail of his "new life" to your BFF! He's channeling it all through her, knowing it's going straight back to you, just to keep that connection, to keep you involved. Before you were separated, did he find the need to confide his every move to your BFF? Obvious not, or you would have known that he was cheating! Remember, he's only telling her what he wants [i]you[/i] to hear! It may or may not be the truth. And honestly, he sounds so much like my ex ... wouldn't know the truth if it came up and bit him in the butt! And I know it's very uncomfortable to find out that he's spreading lies about you, but try not to worry about it. My ex did that too - tried his darndest to shift the blame, accused ME of cheating, tried to make it all MY fault! And you know what? <u>Nobody</u> believed him! They knew him and they knew me and not a soul believed him. They thought it just made him look all the more pathetic! And if somebody didn't know me, I could care less what they thought. And even some that didn't know me soon figured out that he was lying, and it made him look even worse. Just try to rise above it all, don't take the bait, don't get involved or try to defend yourself. You don't need to, and anybody who matters already knows this. [/QUOTE]
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