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<blockquote data-quote="rejectedmom" data-source="post: 88869" data-attributes="member: 2315"><p>Your husband is trying to save face with mutual friends and aquaintances. He has so little self-confidence he makes up stories about you to diminish you in the eyes of others in an effort to elevate himself. It is hurtful and it is pure aggresion and abuse. Recognize it for what it is. You might want to consider another approach and tell him in no uncertain terms that you will sue him for slander if he doesn't stop. Or perhaps have your lawyer draft a letter to him stating you position. He has fallen into the deep deep hole called life crisis and for males it can manifest in all kinds of unplesant ways. But ignoring what he is doing or listening to the tales carried to you by "friends" makes you stay in the role of victim. That is not a healthy place to be. So stop living as his victim and put an end to his abuse and DETACH from the whole darn chaos he is trying to perpetrate onto your new life. You were able to do this with your son now you must do it with your ex if you want to be happy and healthy. HUGS -RM</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rejectedmom, post: 88869, member: 2315"] Your husband is trying to save face with mutual friends and aquaintances. He has so little self-confidence he makes up stories about you to diminish you in the eyes of others in an effort to elevate himself. It is hurtful and it is pure aggresion and abuse. Recognize it for what it is. You might want to consider another approach and tell him in no uncertain terms that you will sue him for slander if he doesn't stop. Or perhaps have your lawyer draft a letter to him stating you position. He has fallen into the deep deep hole called life crisis and for males it can manifest in all kinds of unplesant ways. But ignoring what he is doing or listening to the tales carried to you by "friends" makes you stay in the role of victim. That is not a healthy place to be. So stop living as his victim and put an end to his abuse and DETACH from the whole darn chaos he is trying to perpetrate onto your new life. You were able to do this with your son now you must do it with your ex if you want to be happy and healthy. HUGS -RM [/QUOTE]
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