Like EW said, I don't want to wait another 20 years. So, I sent another email last night that read: Ok. I'm not known for my diplomacy. I'm very direct. And patience has never been my strong suit. I understand you're in a relationship. And I'm not one to go after another woman's man. But, I've thought about you over the years. A lot. And according to sources (who shall remain unnamed *coff coff*), so have you. So, can we cut the being guarded [koi] and just get to know each other? Friends? If that's not what you want, then that's ok. I said some other stuff....then So....that said....what did you ask Santa for? (one of the pics he sent me were of him and his dad with Santa) He responded via Iphone: Santa...? A redhead!