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<blockquote data-quote="Steely" data-source="post: 46351" data-attributes="member: 3301"><p>I am so sorry that you are going through this........I know how hard it is, I have been there and it is gut wretching..</p><p></p><p>Bottom line is that your son is a minor, and your husband abused him! </p><p><strong>Abused Him</strong>!!!!</p><p>It really is that black and white....there are no what ifs, or maybes, or should haves.......your husband abused a child and your son has no one to protect him now but you. You must be your son's shield, and show him, literally show him how much you love him by moving you and the kids out of that environment immediately.</p><p></p><p>You birthed your precious son promising to protect him, love him, and take care of his every need - and he <em>needs</em> you now! Do not stand by and watch, or let the other kids watch, because then you have become an abuser yourself, and the other kids more victims. Next time it might be too late for either your boy or your husband. I know if someone was taking swings at my difficult child, a knife would not be out of the question for him to pick up.......and then what? That scenario can go no where but bad, bad, bad.....including someone ending up dead.</p><p></p><p>I hope you forgive me for being a bit harsh.....but it is only because I have been where you are......and I know how easy it is to slip back into denial and pretend it will all be OK. It was just this one time.....they won't do it again, blah, blah, blah. It will happen again if you don't act - and then it may be too late.</p><p></p><p>My thoughts are with you.....and I hope you are packing now.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Steely, post: 46351, member: 3301"] I am so sorry that you are going through this........I know how hard it is, I have been there and it is gut wretching.. Bottom line is that your son is a minor, and your husband abused him! [b]Abused Him[/b]!!!! It really is that black and white....there are no what ifs, or maybes, or should haves.......your husband abused a child and your son has no one to protect him now but you. You must be your son's shield, and show him, literally show him how much you love him by moving you and the kids out of that environment immediately. You birthed your precious son promising to protect him, love him, and take care of his every need - and he [i]needs[/i] you now! Do not stand by and watch, or let the other kids watch, because then you have become an abuser yourself, and the other kids more victims. Next time it might be too late for either your boy or your husband. I know if someone was taking swings at my difficult child, a knife would not be out of the question for him to pick up.......and then what? That scenario can go no where but bad, bad, bad.....including someone ending up dead. I hope you forgive me for being a bit harsh.....but it is only because I have been where you are......and I know how easy it is to slip back into denial and pretend it will all be OK. It was just this one time.....they won't do it again, blah, blah, blah. It will happen again if you don't act - and then it may be too late. My thoughts are with you.....and I hope you are packing now. [/QUOTE]
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