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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 367286" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>I doubt I'll get a penny but that isn't the only reason I'm filing. It complicates my families' efforts- mainly my bro- to get custody of difficult child. It really would be good for difficult child to know his father since they haven't met- even though his father will trash me and blame everything on me, too, it's still preferable to my bro doing it and difficult child probably getting molested by someone. In any case, I have filed for public assistance (I hadn't before and that's a large reason why I'd never filed before) but since now I have, I'm hoping that helps. I'm not so concerned about this state making an effort as I am about the other state. But this state use to have a law that if the parents weren't married and the non-custoduial parent lived out of state, they didn't go after them at all. I'll go to the meeting- but I'll call tomorrow and tell them I don't have anymore info and there have not been any previous court actions. It better not be a lengthy meeting though or they are going to make me miss my first dr appointment in the past 18+ months.</p><p></p><p>I'm just frustrated with all our county agencies' *stuff*. It really starts appearing like because they can't come up with any better way to pusue something that would actually be effective, they will spend bucco resources and manhours on something that won't help at all. And then pay people to do statistics on why this approach didn't work. But if I mention being concerned about where this is leading- oh well, I am just too worried about something that hasn't even happened yet. I guess I'll learn one of these sdays not to be the one to tell them that the emporer has no clothes on. LOL!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 367286, member: 3699"] I doubt I'll get a penny but that isn't the only reason I'm filing. It complicates my families' efforts- mainly my bro- to get custody of difficult child. It really would be good for difficult child to know his father since they haven't met- even though his father will trash me and blame everything on me, too, it's still preferable to my bro doing it and difficult child probably getting molested by someone. In any case, I have filed for public assistance (I hadn't before and that's a large reason why I'd never filed before) but since now I have, I'm hoping that helps. I'm not so concerned about this state making an effort as I am about the other state. But this state use to have a law that if the parents weren't married and the non-custoduial parent lived out of state, they didn't go after them at all. I'll go to the meeting- but I'll call tomorrow and tell them I don't have anymore info and there have not been any previous court actions. It better not be a lengthy meeting though or they are going to make me miss my first dr appointment in the past 18+ months. I'm just frustrated with all our county agencies' *stuff*. It really starts appearing like because they can't come up with any better way to pusue something that would actually be effective, they will spend bucco resources and manhours on something that won't help at all. And then pay people to do statistics on why this approach didn't work. But if I mention being concerned about where this is leading- oh well, I am just too worried about something that hasn't even happened yet. I guess I'll learn one of these sdays not to be the one to tell them that the emporer has no clothes on. LOL! [/QUOTE]
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