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<blockquote data-quote="PatriotsGirl" data-source="post: 468918"><p>I tried logging into this site on my Blackberry and couldn't get to the log on screen. I don't think it is your phone! </p><p></p><p>I kind of had an epiphany of sorts today. I recognized that I was sliding back into codependancy and skidded to a halt. She texted me earlier to let me know that she had a ride to class. I was sitting there debating on whether I shouldn't trust her and demand to take her or let it go. I thought about my life in the past week since being around her again and realized she is not good for me right now. It is not healthy for me to get caught up in her life. She is an adult. I let it go. I told her that it is her life to live, not mine, and that she was an adult and had to make her own decisions. I hope she doesn't blow this opportunity, but it is her choice to make. If she does blow it, she can't expect anything from me anymore. I tried. </p><p></p><p>I <em>am</em> going home for Christmas and difficult child can make her own plans. </p><p></p><p>I feel like this tremendous weight has been lifted! Feels so good to detach again. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="PatriotsGirl, post: 468918"] I tried logging into this site on my Blackberry and couldn't get to the log on screen. I don't think it is your phone! I kind of had an epiphany of sorts today. I recognized that I was sliding back into codependancy and skidded to a halt. She texted me earlier to let me know that she had a ride to class. I was sitting there debating on whether I shouldn't trust her and demand to take her or let it go. I thought about my life in the past week since being around her again and realized she is not good for me right now. It is not healthy for me to get caught up in her life. She is an adult. I let it go. I told her that it is her life to live, not mine, and that she was an adult and had to make her own decisions. I hope she doesn't blow this opportunity, but it is her choice to make. If she does blow it, she can't expect anything from me anymore. I tried. I [I]am[/I] going home for Christmas and difficult child can make her own plans. I feel like this tremendous weight has been lifted! Feels so good to detach again. :) [/QUOTE]
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