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<blockquote data-quote="Echolette" data-source="post: 703653" data-attributes="member: 17269"><p>uh...no.</p><p>That was easy!</p><p>So very much easier to see the right thing for some one else!</p><p>If she calls and says she wants to come over, IF you are willing to see her, suggest instead that you meet in some public place, from which you can easily leave. </p><p>If she just shows up, after what has happened, KNOW that that is manipulative and abusive...that is not loving, that is not your baby girl. That is an adult who knows she can push you around. Channel some strength around that idea, channel some anger, and do NOT let her in. Tell her you weren't expecting her and now isn't a good time. Tell her you would love to meet her later at the coffee shop. Don't open the door. If she argues and yells, walk AWAY from the door. Have a phone near the door so you can call 911 if you have to. Tell her you will call the police if she stands at the door yelling. </p><p>Do not let her in.</p><p>Meet her somewhere else if you want to see her. If you don't want to see her, don't do that either. If you offer to meet her somewhere else and she refuses...well then, we know what her true agenda is, don't we. She wants to get into the house, not to see you. </p><p>uh....no. </p><p></p><p>Hugs in these challenging days.</p><p></p><p>Echo</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Echolette, post: 703653, member: 17269"] uh...no. That was easy! So very much easier to see the right thing for some one else! If she calls and says she wants to come over, IF you are willing to see her, suggest instead that you meet in some public place, from which you can easily leave. If she just shows up, after what has happened, KNOW that that is manipulative and abusive...that is not loving, that is not your baby girl. That is an adult who knows she can push you around. Channel some strength around that idea, channel some anger, and do NOT let her in. Tell her you weren't expecting her and now isn't a good time. Tell her you would love to meet her later at the coffee shop. Don't open the door. If she argues and yells, walk AWAY from the door. Have a phone near the door so you can call 911 if you have to. Tell her you will call the police if she stands at the door yelling. Do not let her in. Meet her somewhere else if you want to see her. If you don't want to see her, don't do that either. If you offer to meet her somewhere else and she refuses...well then, we know what her true agenda is, don't we. She wants to get into the house, not to see you. uh....no. Hugs in these challenging days. Echo [/QUOTE]
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