SWOT I agree it felt wrong in my gut not to make the revolving door swing one more time. It was something in his presence and it felt honest. That is not saying that he won't be able to manage and this will all go to hell in a hand basket. I have my armour on and I am prepared to enforce the rules of the house and the agreement to go to rehab should he not manage to meet his own expectations.
We must stick to our boundaries regardless of the anger and FOG we face this is not easy.
I appreciate the wisdom and support so much it has made me so much stronger when I face my son.