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<blockquote data-quote="lovemysons" data-source="post: 608740" data-attributes="member: 3305"><p>Sounds familiar...</p><p></p><p>My Oldest difficult child memorized the Big Book JUST so he could use it AGAINST staff. He wasn't there to work on his problems he was there to create more it seemed! </p><p>And Yes I remember hearing some shocking stories too. Later (after Rehab) Oldest admitted that he lied about some things. </p><p></p><p>I know you must miss your son though...You find yourself looking at their room with a heavy heart, maybe even hugging their pillows, reading things you find that they've written. Time to reflect but also time to look ahead as difficult child has alot of work to do on himself once he is released from Rehab. </p><p></p><p>They will likely have you all agree to and sign a discharge contract...this will state things like house rules, AA meetings, etc. And then if you're like me you will feel like you have to watch every move and be a team player with difficult child in this whole messy situation. </p><p></p><p>So rest up while you can...keep yourself strong. </p><p>Hugs,</p><p>LMS</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="lovemysons, post: 608740, member: 3305"] Sounds familiar... My Oldest difficult child memorized the Big Book JUST so he could use it AGAINST staff. He wasn't there to work on his problems he was there to create more it seemed! And Yes I remember hearing some shocking stories too. Later (after Rehab) Oldest admitted that he lied about some things. I know you must miss your son though...You find yourself looking at their room with a heavy heart, maybe even hugging their pillows, reading things you find that they've written. Time to reflect but also time to look ahead as difficult child has alot of work to do on himself once he is released from Rehab. They will likely have you all agree to and sign a discharge contract...this will state things like house rules, AA meetings, etc. And then if you're like me you will feel like you have to watch every move and be a team player with difficult child in this whole messy situation. So rest up while you can...keep yourself strong. Hugs, LMS [/QUOTE]
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