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<blockquote data-quote="ck1" data-source="post: 77985" data-attributes="member: 3767"><p>Tracy: I don't remember if you posted this before or not, but does your son have a consent decree? If he does, then he has to follow that or you call his probation officer, and most likely, the consent decree will state that he has to follow your rules (or something to that effect).</p><p></p><p>I just reviewed my sons consent decree with him just before he was transferred to the Residential Treatment Facility (RTF). His states something about having to cooperate with counseling, something like that, anyway, he asked me, "so if I have wrap around when I leave here and don't want to participate, you can call my PO?" My answer, "yup, and then depending on the situation, you could end up back in the detention center or have to go somewhere called "the academy" for a weekend".</p><p></p><p>Also, the Residential Treatment Facility (RTF) that my son is in told me that if my difficult child was home and we're not having a good visit, I can bring him right back. If I can't transport him, they'll come get him. Your son MUST KNOW that he has to follow your rules or there is not a place for him in your home. I know that's hard, but it's for his own good and the rest of your family.</p><p></p><p>I'm sorry you're having such a hard time, listen to your mommy instincts...they won't fail you now...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ck1, post: 77985, member: 3767"] Tracy: I don't remember if you posted this before or not, but does your son have a consent decree? If he does, then he has to follow that or you call his probation officer, and most likely, the consent decree will state that he has to follow your rules (or something to that effect). I just reviewed my sons consent decree with him just before he was transferred to the Residential Treatment Facility (RTF). His states something about having to cooperate with counseling, something like that, anyway, he asked me, "so if I have wrap around when I leave here and don't want to participate, you can call my PO?" My answer, "yup, and then depending on the situation, you could end up back in the detention center or have to go somewhere called "the academy" for a weekend". Also, the Residential Treatment Facility (RTF) that my son is in told me that if my difficult child was home and we're not having a good visit, I can bring him right back. If I can't transport him, they'll come get him. Your son MUST KNOW that he has to follow your rules or there is not a place for him in your home. I know that's hard, but it's for his own good and the rest of your family. I'm sorry you're having such a hard time, listen to your mommy instincts...they won't fail you now... [/QUOTE]
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