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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 112362" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>Yes, Susie he got punished for that. According to what the resource officer told difficult child, the pushing the kid away was acceptable, once difficult child hit him in the side, that made him a participant in the fight and they both get in equal trouble. Mind you, the kid had been getting in difficult child's face and bumping his shoulder earlier in the day, then after class started mouthing off. difficult child did say something back to him (not sure what) and other kid grabbed difficult child by neck and slammed him against wall. difficult child pushed him away but kid grabbed difficult child by neck and slammed against wall again- this is when difficult child hit him in the side and pushed away again. It still didn't stop the kid- the staff/teachers pulled him off. Other kid had no marks on him.</p><p></p><p>I thought about charges but decided against it just because there is concern that other kids might find out difficult child is on probation (if they're not already figuring it out) and that instigating problems (confrontations, fights) will ultimately cause difficult child bigger problems. We discussed it with probation officer, she saw the mark and seemed just as concerned as me. She suggested getting something from me in difficult child's file, appealing this decision if possible, and letting sd know to keep kid away from difficult child. And, we agreed that if other kid ever leaves a mark on difficult child again, charges will be filed- against kid and possibly sd. Also, probation officer said sd should be concerned that the kid would attack someone else, even if not difficult child.</p><p></p><p>I'll be bringing it up again at next IEP meeting- next week- and principal is on the team. This will ensure it's in writing in his record some way- even if my letter doesn't make it to the file.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 112362, member: 3699"] Yes, Susie he got punished for that. According to what the resource officer told difficult child, the pushing the kid away was acceptable, once difficult child hit him in the side, that made him a participant in the fight and they both get in equal trouble. Mind you, the kid had been getting in difficult child's face and bumping his shoulder earlier in the day, then after class started mouthing off. difficult child did say something back to him (not sure what) and other kid grabbed difficult child by neck and slammed him against wall. difficult child pushed him away but kid grabbed difficult child by neck and slammed against wall again- this is when difficult child hit him in the side and pushed away again. It still didn't stop the kid- the staff/teachers pulled him off. Other kid had no marks on him. I thought about charges but decided against it just because there is concern that other kids might find out difficult child is on probation (if they're not already figuring it out) and that instigating problems (confrontations, fights) will ultimately cause difficult child bigger problems. We discussed it with probation officer, she saw the mark and seemed just as concerned as me. She suggested getting something from me in difficult child's file, appealing this decision if possible, and letting sd know to keep kid away from difficult child. And, we agreed that if other kid ever leaves a mark on difficult child again, charges will be filed- against kid and possibly sd. Also, probation officer said sd should be concerned that the kid would attack someone else, even if not difficult child. I'll be bringing it up again at next IEP meeting- next week- and principal is on the team. This will ensure it's in writing in his record some way- even if my letter doesn't make it to the file. [/QUOTE]
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