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<blockquote data-quote="compassion" data-source="post: 215655" data-attributes="member: 6393"><p>Thanks, that is how I Feel. She can't be home for more than a few days and then she bolts. I so much wnt to keep her home. The last 6 months have been unbelivable. She is now 15 and 7 months. She has run away dozens of times since June and found out this was the frist time she had not been igh in six months on the weekend. But she is about rady to burst and insists on living some place else. Staying someplace else. It si unsafe a lot so letting her releuctantly stays someplace and have been getting her but I am so exhausted. She has wrecked 3 cars (stole from us) , taken our credit cards and wracked up thousands of dollars. Since Nov. 1, she has had 2 weeks of not using (ist week and last week) but it is so difficult. She wS IN INPATEINT PSCH WARD JLY29-AUG.7 diagnosed bipolar, substance abuse and conduct disorder. She is on Abilify and Lactimal. She runs and self medicats somuch though that it is hard to stabilize. Try so hard and she bolts again. LTR rccomended by her p-doctor and i so mcuh want her to get the care she needs at home The t-doctor and I drew up behavirol plan last week and she complied but does nto eant to be at home which is frustrating. She puts herself in danger and restiss the structue and supervison I provide. Yeh, I know it is hew addctions, etc. I will be posting here daily!!!! </p><p>Sunday she was so tired but insistd on gongto thisother house and then she is texting and on my Space rather than sleeping. I was frustrated that this other family is enabling but have to majorally choose my battles. She tried out for club vollyblal, worked at Humane Society plus went to all the meetings and I am absoutely exhausted. Thnksgivng, the end of my son's sester and trying to do stuff with her. i want health so bad for her and she is not in good shape. It is hard to have th epatince. She distances from me. I relly, relly, really try. I read a lpost about the control sutff-that is major with her and I. I relaly try to choose bttles but her impulse control is so poor tht the supervison needs to be intense but she resists it. I think we need to easy does it. i want her here. We had t-doctor appointment. yesteday and i insisted she sign contract that put her here most of the time -she wants to live at this other place where there is nolimts. Plus, trying to give her the choice not to run and use so she can stay here versus go to ltr. I am too exhsutd to carryit out. She ahs been basically beenonthe streets the lst month and tyrng to reign her in is so exhausting. Yes, it is huge that she comlied wt AA but it was under threat that seh waould go to ltr. I am tryig to provide structure but I urn out very quickly. She does not want to be here and has that attitude and resstance constantly. She is at this at toehr house. I told her tonight she has to stay here so she can elp me shop for T-Day but I am so burned out. Thanks for listening. Compassion</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="compassion, post: 215655, member: 6393"] Thanks, that is how I Feel. She can't be home for more than a few days and then she bolts. I so much wnt to keep her home. The last 6 months have been unbelivable. She is now 15 and 7 months. She has run away dozens of times since June and found out this was the frist time she had not been igh in six months on the weekend. But she is about rady to burst and insists on living some place else. Staying someplace else. It si unsafe a lot so letting her releuctantly stays someplace and have been getting her but I am so exhausted. She has wrecked 3 cars (stole from us) , taken our credit cards and wracked up thousands of dollars. Since Nov. 1, she has had 2 weeks of not using (ist week and last week) but it is so difficult. She wS IN INPATEINT PSCH WARD JLY29-AUG.7 diagnosed bipolar, substance abuse and conduct disorder. She is on Abilify and Lactimal. She runs and self medicats somuch though that it is hard to stabilize. Try so hard and she bolts again. LTR rccomended by her p-doctor and i so mcuh want her to get the care she needs at home The t-doctor and I drew up behavirol plan last week and she complied but does nto eant to be at home which is frustrating. She puts herself in danger and restiss the structue and supervison I provide. Yeh, I know it is hew addctions, etc. I will be posting here daily!!!! Sunday she was so tired but insistd on gongto thisother house and then she is texting and on my Space rather than sleeping. I was frustrated that this other family is enabling but have to majorally choose my battles. She tried out for club vollyblal, worked at Humane Society plus went to all the meetings and I am absoutely exhausted. Thnksgivng, the end of my son's sester and trying to do stuff with her. i want health so bad for her and she is not in good shape. It is hard to have th epatince. She distances from me. I relly, relly, really try. I read a lpost about the control sutff-that is major with her and I. I relaly try to choose bttles but her impulse control is so poor tht the supervison needs to be intense but she resists it. I think we need to easy does it. i want her here. We had t-doctor appointment. yesteday and i insisted she sign contract that put her here most of the time -she wants to live at this other place where there is nolimts. Plus, trying to give her the choice not to run and use so she can stay here versus go to ltr. I am too exhsutd to carryit out. She ahs been basically beenonthe streets the lst month and tyrng to reign her in is so exhausting. Yes, it is huge that she comlied wt AA but it was under threat that seh waould go to ltr. I am tryig to provide structure but I urn out very quickly. She does not want to be here and has that attitude and resstance constantly. She is at this at toehr house. I told her tonight she has to stay here so she can elp me shop for T-Day but I am so burned out. Thanks for listening. Compassion [/QUOTE]
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