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<blockquote data-quote="TeDo" data-source="post: 558401"><p>I agree. My sister was able to get things put in the divorce/child custody papers like "he has to refer to her as Mom when talking to or around the kids" (they were 16 and 14) and that "he cannot say negative things about her to or around the kids", etc. Even though they are now 21 and 19, she still fumes when she hears that my brother in law (he's still VERY much a part of our family since she left and didn't talk to ANY of us for 2 years) said something to someone and said her name in front of her kids because "the court papers say....". You'd be amazed at what can be put in there. </p><p></p><p>Another thought. Can you point these things out to the therapist and psychiatrist so they can talk to difficult child about what she says? If you can get enough documentation, the courts or DCF or whoever can limit visitation rights because of the emotional toll it's taking on difficult child, Know what I mean?? I REALLY hope you are documenting EVERYTHING he says and when and under what circumstances. Make sure to document all behaviors and all the details surrounding them (calendar style if you have to) so the pattern becomes VERY clear to anyone that looks at it.</p><p></p><p>Sorry you are ALL going through this. It really hoovers. {{{HUGS}}} to all of you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TeDo, post: 558401"] I agree. My sister was able to get things put in the divorce/child custody papers like "he has to refer to her as Mom when talking to or around the kids" (they were 16 and 14) and that "he cannot say negative things about her to or around the kids", etc. Even though they are now 21 and 19, she still fumes when she hears that my brother in law (he's still VERY much a part of our family since she left and didn't talk to ANY of us for 2 years) said something to someone and said her name in front of her kids because "the court papers say....". You'd be amazed at what can be put in there. Another thought. Can you point these things out to the therapist and psychiatrist so they can talk to difficult child about what she says? If you can get enough documentation, the courts or DCF or whoever can limit visitation rights because of the emotional toll it's taking on difficult child, Know what I mean?? I REALLY hope you are documenting EVERYTHING he says and when and under what circumstances. Make sure to document all behaviors and all the details surrounding them (calendar style if you have to) so the pattern becomes VERY clear to anyone that looks at it. Sorry you are ALL going through this. It really hoovers. {{{HUGS}}} to all of you. [/QUOTE]
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