Well my daughter hasn't been in contact with me for a month now. She changed her phone number, took down her facebook page and I havent seen my grandson for 2 weeks. Although I miss my little guy, I have no desire to see my daughter or her boyfriend. I worry about my grandson and a part of me wants to pick him up but the other part of me doesnt want any contact with my daughter right now. Is it wrong to not pick him up because of them? The last time I had him, someone was suppose to pick him up at 6 and no one got him till 10:30 at night. They have no respect for me, and the fact that I have to go to work the next morning. The boyfriend told me that my daughter was having a really bad day and that he would pick him up after work!! Since when do you get to choose not to be a parent just because you are having a bad day!!! i just need a break for a while, but i dont want my grandson to think im not there for him!!